I've seen enough relationships in my time to know that they are all different.
I've also been in enough relationships to realize that I, myself, am different when it comes to being a girlfriend. I've been told I'm distant, but that's because guys are so used to having someone who is up their ass (excuse my language) all the time.
I've been told I don't care, but that's because guys are so used to having a girlfriend that is constantly checking in. Not me. I might be distant, I might not talk to you every single day, but my love is always, and will always be fiercely loyal. I don't get crazy, and I never will get crazy.
I'm just not that type of girl.
Here are 8 reasons why I'm a different type of girlfriend- and that's okay:
1. I won't constantly check in to see what you're doing.
Don't take this the wrong way. It's not that I don't care, it's just that I trust you. If I'm in a relationship with you, it's obviously because I trust you enough to be dating you. This means I will trust you until you give me a reason not to. Do whatever you want, go wherever you want to go- just don't give me a reason to not trust you.
2. I won't text you all day, every day.
I am not the kind of girl that needs to be talking to you constantly. I understand that we are separate people and we both have busy lives, therefore we don't have time to constantly be blowing each others' phones up. Their could be days that we don't talk at all, but I know we both understand where we stand at the end of the day- and that's what matters.
3. I will not get jealous, and I will never make you jealous.
I am not that kind of girl. I don't need to try to make you jealous to get your attention, that's childish. I also will not get jealous of you, either. I don't care if you like another girls picture, or talk to another girl at a party. I know that you're mine, and if we're at a party I don't need to hang off you to let everyone know that. As long as you're loyal, then do your own thing, and I'll do mine. At the end of the day, I know you'll still go home with me.
4. I will never be crazy.
I've seen girls who get pretty crazy when it comes to their boyfriends. Usually, it's because they have a reason to be but sometimes girls are just too protective. That's not me. Don't get me wrong, if a girl gets a little too close, I might say something. However, I'll never go through your phone, or constantly figure out where you are all the time. If I have to do that, it means I don't trust you. If I didn't trust you, we wouldn't be together.
5. I will not play games.
I don't have time to play games. If you make me work for your attention, or compete with another girl, I will walk away and not look back. I don't have time for childish bullshit. Be a man, or be nothing to me. That is your choice.
6. I will not ask to see you every day.
Again, it's not that I don't care. I want to see you, but we both have busy lives. I want nights to spend with my friends, just as you should. I'll never be the girl that takes you away from seeing your friends, and you shouldn't take me away from mine either. Couples don't need to be all over each other all the time- sometimes space makes you appreciate each other more.
7. I don't care who you're with because I trust you.
I don't really care who you're hanging out with, and I probably will never ask you unless I have a reason to be concerned. Contrary to popular belief, girls can be friends with guys. If you have friends that are girls, then I trust you. As long as you're loyal, do whatever you want- like I said, I'm not crazy.
8. I love intensely.
Though it may seem like I'm distant and don't care, my love is far more intense than you could imagine. I believe trust is very important, which is why I let you do what you want when you want. But never question my love for you. I'm the kind of girl that will always be happy to see you. I'll always make you laugh. I'll bend over backwards for you when you ask me too and even when you don't. When I love someone, I love them with everything I have- that's the way it should always be.
