Dear boys,
You may think you know all you need to know when you are dating us girls, but actually, you don't. Us girls are very complex and sophisticated as part of the human race. It takes one to know one; essentially girls understand girls meaning it is probably difficult for you to understand us. This is for you boys!
1. Are we all that you think about?
First thing is first, we are women and we like to know that we are on your mind. We love it actually. It may seem unusual, but it reassures us that you actually care about us. Of course, we will worry about you cheating on us, so don't give us reason to believe that. Tell us how we're all you can think about, if not all of the time, most of the time.
2. Honesty is the best policy
At least for me, I'd rather you be honest about your plans or schedule. I like knowing when I get to see you and spend time with you. Also please, pretty please be honest about simple things like when you are telling us things. We also really like communication, it shows that you're committed.
3. Compliment us
This shouldn't be something I have to write, but I'll do it anyways. Always compliment a girl. It boosts our self-esteem and we really enjoy knowing that you appreciate something about us. It doesn't have to be all of the time, but every once-in-a-while it's a nice surprise.
4. Be affectionate
This may not be the same for everyone, but for many girls, we like affection. We are born nurturers and we love getting affection and love. Whether you're holding us, hugging us, kissing us, or we're just cuddling, we love it. It's just another thing that makes us happy and that should be the ultimate goal.
5. Ask us questions
Small talk is the worst talk, especially if that's all you do. You don't have to dig deep into our personal life, but at least ask us questions about what we want to do or what kind of day we had. These questions have easy answers. Plus, they will show us that you are actually interested in our life and along with better communication skills in the relationship.
6. Please don't lead us on
If you feel like you're not going to be committed in the relationship, or you just don't feel that same "spark" you once did, don't lead your girl on or cheat on us. It's heart breaking for us when you do. It also ties back to that whole communication thing and being honest. Just a simple life saver: don't lead us on.
Of course, all of these are things that girls could and should be doing too. However, as a girl, I know what we want to hear from guys and these are just some of the most important topics. Good luck boys!
