We all have that one person that makes us feel inadequate. That one person that is constantly bringing down your mood and causing you unnecessary stress. Ya know, that person that probably just popped into your head. Whether it's a friend, family member, or your significant other, it's all the same concept right? We as individuals accept the love we think we deserve, and you my friend... You deserve better, and here's why...
1. Life is too short.
We're reminded everyday that time is constantly flying by, and with that being said, you should spend your time around people that make your life the best it can be. Don't get me wrong, everyone has good and bad days. However, you shouldn't let people who make you happy every 1 out of maybe 9 days fill your schedule up. Time is precious and you should strive to spend it with individuals who make you excited to be alive, not someone who seems to always rain on your parade.
2. You put in the effort.
I can't think of one person who doesn't enjoy feeling appreciated. That's why when a human cares for another human, we tend to go out of our way to make them feel important. Real talk for just a second: If you're always trying to make a certain person feel loved, doesn't it make sense that they should do the same in return? It could simply be a kind word, or even stopping by with your favorite venti iced white chocolate mocha with an extra shot from Starbuck's. Regardless, if they truly care for you then they'll make it known.
3. I mean, look at you!
Self-esteem, it's something we all struggle with. If I had a nickel for every time I looked in the mirror and immediately saw that "oh wow you're ACTUALLY in public" face, I'd be richer than Donald Trump. Regardless of that bad hair day or even that bad hair week, you deserve to be around people who are going to make you feel like the star you are. Because you are!
4. You deserve the best, and so do the people who care for you.
When we have relationships with people that are continuously pushing us to be the best we can be, it's our first instinct to pass that on to ourselves and others. In the same respect, when there are individuals in our lives that cause self-doubt and unhappiness, it's easy to pass those feelings on to the ones we care about the most. In a nutshell, when you accept less than you deserve, it doesn't only affect you.
5. You're an example to someone.
Most of us have a younger sibling, play the Big role in a big/little pair, or maybe even lead a group of people at work or school. As creepy as this may sound, wherever you are there is someone watching you. You may not know it now but you are a role model for someone out there. Question: How do you expect someone to treat your best friend? Exactly, that's what you deserve too! Next time you begin to allow someone to take you for granted, remember who's taking notes.
6. While they aren't treating you right, someone else would kill to.
After a while, the lack of pursuit and feelings of inadequacy are hard to ignore. It's easy to give in and begin beating yourself down, even when you've done nothing wrong. Chances are while you're fighting for that person's attention, there is someone right around the corner who would love to show you just how great you truly are! Don't let someone give you the opportunity to doubt yourself, instead open your eyes to bigger and better possibilities. Ones that don't you disappoint you for a change!
7. BECAUSE YOU'RE YOU.
There isn't one other person on this Earth who has the privilege of being you. Let that sink in. You are a one of a kind, a rain drop, a rare diamond. Whether it's your slightly crooked nose, your weird impersonations or even your obsession with cats, embrace it. Be proud of who you are! If those around you don't encourage you to be your true self, then it's probably time to embrace them... Out the door.
The truth is, not only do you deserve better, but you deserve the best.
