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7 Reasons I Love My Mixed Race Family

7 Reasons I Love My Mixed Race Family
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  1. I grew up in a family where race didn't matter. My sister and I are Asian and our parents White. This means I had no idea that this was irregular or unusual. My best friends were half White/half Asian and Cambodian in white families. Like all children, I saw people by their inside, not their outside.
  2. It shows me how unconditional love truly is. I have two parents who love me more than anything- they did what they did not have to do. Yes, they wanted children. Yes, they were unable to have their own. However, they could have gone with a surrogate or to remain childless. However, they chose to spend thousands of dollars to adopt a child from halfway across the world. Twice. My father always says that adoption is one of the purest forms of love, and I agree 1000%.
  3. I learned very young what makes a family. Blood does not make a family. I am the second of four adoptions in my family today, with two pending. If you've ever seen ABC Family's program The Fosters, "blood doesn't make a family. Love does." That's how I've always felt about my family. I didn't care about if my family looked different than me. I care that they love me.
  4. Extra holidays to celebrate! I get to celebrate Thanksgiving with turkey, mashed potatoes, and green bean casserole and I get to celebrate Chinese New Year with fried rice, dumplings, and wonton soup.
  5. Double the perspectives on the world. There's always someone who has an opposing view on a political issue, generally international disputes, and I love being able to argue both sides.
  6. There are so many places I can connect to and explore. Despite the fact both my parents are White, they have totally different backgrounds. My father is a seasoned traveler with passport stamps like Israel, the former Yugoslavia, France, Vietnam, Italy, and China. My mother's travel log includes Chile, Ecuador, and most states in the US.
  7. I got to eat lots of different foods. From Syracuse, NY staples like salt potatoes and coneys to Hawaiian treats like SPAM musubi and malasadas (Leonard's!), German foods like sauerkraut (still don't like it), and my favorite thing I've tried on a trip, spiced Polish vodka.
  8. I'm totally okay with my family growing in unusual ways. From an aunt adopting her stepson to keep rights from his mother to a grandmother-like figure taking in a transgender girl after her own parents disowned her, I'm not only fine with this, I'm excited for my little cousin and future aunt (I'd like to just call her my cousin, though). Once we become a mixed race family we learn that love is all that matters. Even if all parties are white, we're still a mixed family.
  9. I love my mixed (race) family because we are whole. We are happy and we are all so very loved, with no one ever doubting it. I have a sister from China, a transgender cousin from Texas, five German siblings, and a Hawaiian godmother. No one can tell us we are lesser for not "matching" each other or for being far apart in age. We are unbreakable.
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