Often times people are left to think that as adults we are supposed to teach children what is right and what is wrong and everything else they need to know in order to grow. But having worked with children in schools, after schools, and camps I have come to notice how this role is not entirely true. Yes, we are supposed to be “older and wiser,” but there are many lessons that we too can learn from kids. They often times are able to teach us the best lessons, better than the ones we have to offer, or sometimes ones that we can’t quite see.
1. Make everyday the best day
Kids have no problem saying “This is the best day ever!” just about every other day because of one little thing that made their day great. What a lesson for us to take in the little things, because those are what truly matter.
2. Laugh more
Kids have the ability to find joy and excitement all around them. I can’t count the amount of time I spend laughing with my kids at camp or in the classroom, mostly about nothing, and it truly does not get better. They laugh at something small, themselves, or a not so funny joke, but they laugh, and let me tell you it is contagious.
3. Be genuinely interested in everyone
“My kids” love to hear stories about what I did this weekend or what its like at my school. They become so engaged and interested. What a great lesson is is for us to observe and be interested in what other people are doing and have to share with us.
4. Don’t be afraid to ask for help
Kids don’t think twice before asking for help, whether it is opening their “gogurt” at lunch, or how to spell a word, or directions to play a game or build something. As adults we sometimes see asking for help as being weak, but that is not it at all. No one is meant to do it alone, and when we help each other, great things are possible.
5. Speak the truth
Kids will always tell you their honest opinion and not think twice about it. They call every shot just like they see it, the moment it happens. Speaking the truth builds strong character, and people will listen if they trust you are speaking honestly.
6. Try new things
Children are not afraid to try anything new, whether it be a new sport or game or talking to new people; they are so willing to take that jump. As adults, we fear the unknown. We stay safely in our comfort zone and rarely venture out. Adventure excites us; it awakens the spirit, and keeps us going.
7. Appreciate the now
Kids are fortunate to have an amazing focus for the current moment; they aren't worrying about what they're going to be doing later. Instead, they're creating new games and making forts. I find myself even at camp saying "Let’s go; let’s go trying to move, campers!" As adults we are always in a rush to get somewhere, but why? I think we could all learn a lot by having a little less rushing through the days, and a little creativity and fun in our day to day lives.
