I was trying to seek happiness in the solace of other individuals. Draining them of everything they had, just so part of me would feel full. But I never was. I kept craving more and more, and constantly taking the energy from others. If I took energy from happy people, I would become happy, right? Everyone quickly became frustrated because they were worn out.
I soon had little resources left and I had to begin to learn how to become happy again. When you’re a child, it is so natural and easy. But as a jaded, crabby adult, chasing happiness is harder than it seems. By stepping outside of my comfort zone, I learned there are so many things in life to smile about, especially the things I would not have expected. Here are 60 things that have taught me how to be ultimately happy and continue to bring me happiness every day.
1. Stepping outside of your comfort zone.
3. Funny socks.
4. Gardening.
5. Stickers.
6. The honesty of young children.
7. Driving with your windows down on a warm summer's eve.
8. Cannonballs into swimming pools.
9. Ice cream with sprinkles.
10. Reading an amazing book that you cannot put down.
11. Sunrises and sunsets every day.
12. Picnics.
13. Sending and receiving letters in the mail.
14. Calling up an old friend.
15. Sharing secrets with friends.
17. Snuggling with your pets.
18. Dancing in the rain.
19. Singing loud in the shower.
20. Exploring the wilderness.
21. Coloring outside of the lines.
22. Surprising the ones that you love.
23. Hot cups of coffee.
24. Baking cupcakes.
25. Ice skating.
26. Taking silly selfies.
27. Teaching others and learning from others.
28. Hopscotch.
30. Watching others succeed.
31. Following your dreams.
32. Living a life you are proud of.
33. Friends.
34. Celebrating birthdays of the ones you love.
35. Making silly faces.
36. Embracing the imperfections.
37. Freshly cleaned sheets.
38. Finding old and forgotten pictures.
39. Watching movies with buttered popcorn.
40. Hats.
41. Sleeping in.
42. Staying up late.
43. New Year’s Eve kisses.
44. Holidays.
45. New beginnings.
46. Chocolate covered strawberries.
47. Seeing people you love open presents.
48. Big glasses of lemonade on hot summer days.
49. Finishing a long book.
50. Freshly picked fruit and vegetables.
51. Eating healthy.
52. Yoga.
53. Working out.
54. Candid photos.
55. Adventures to unknown places.
56. A clean house.
57. Screaming the lyrics to your favorite song.
58. Making up dances with your friends.
59. Handwritten letters.
60. Your friends and family surprising you because they care.
Happiness isn’t something that comes easily. While we all strive to achieve it, not many know exactly how to accomplish that. Happiness is different for each individual. I hope after reading this list, you’ll be able to make your own and find the things that truly make you feel incredibly happy.
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
