So, every girl has been through this cycle. You meet a guy, you really start to like him, you believe he cares about you so the two of you have sex, and now he's switching up on you. He doesn't call or text as much as he once did, he doesn't ask to see you as much as he once did and when he does make time to see you, it's because he's horny and needs you to fulfill that need, and if you're lucky, he buys you a few nuggets from Chic-fil-a before he sends you home. One of the worst things a guy can do is to pretend he cares just to get between a girl's legs. Ladies, to avoid getting your feelings played with, I am giving you 6 ways to tell if a guy really cares about.
1. He Asks About The Little Things.
A guy who genuinely cares about you asks about "that thing." That thing could be that exam you took that had you stressing all week or that job interview that you were nervous about or even about that strange noise that you've told him your car makes. Asking about the little things shows you that he listens to the things you tell him. A guy taking time just to ask about the little things is a guy that cares about you, not the guy who sends a "wyd" text because he's bored and knows your available.
2. He Makes Time For You.
If he cares about you, he will want you around. Everyone has a busy schedule but we all make time for what we want. If a guy has an excuse for why he can't see you, it's most likely because he doesn't want to see you. A guy who cares about you really just enjoys your presence. Whether he has a kid(s), a full-time job, or a tun of school work he will make time just for you, if he cares.
3. Equal Orgasm.
Most guys know it takes much more time to spark a flame in a woman than it does a man. A guy who really cares about you will do more than kiss you a few times. He will be very giving and generous in the bedroom because he wants to make you feel as good as you make him feel. I think it's safe to say a man who cares whether or not you orgasm is a man who truly cares about you.
4. He Motivates You.
A guy who cares about your future just as much as you do is a guy who cares about you. He encourages you to to do better. He wants to know how school is going and what you plan on doing after you graduate all while motivating you and teaching you knew things.
5. He Asks If You Made It Safely.
The guy who text/calls asking if you made it safely after you leave him is a guy who cares. If It takes you over 30 minutes there and back to get to him and he doesn't ask if you made it, then he doesn't care about you. A guy who cares will ask if you made it OK even if you just live across the street because your safety actually means something to him. If he can text/call to ask for some ass, then he can text/call to make sure your safe.
6. He Respects You.
A man who cares about you will treat you with respect. He won't talk about what the two of you do in bed to his friends, he won't call out your name, and he won't treat you like you're just another girl on his list of girls he's having sex with.