Have you ever been in a relationship where you are constantly questioning things? You aren't official, but you are more than just friends. Your friends try to tell you to get rid of him. You spend most of the relationship trying to figure out what the two of you are, but you're also trying to figure out why you're talking to him in the first place. You like him, but sometimes you question, "why?" Here are just a few signs that he's just not worth your time.
1. He uses a lot of pet names.
Any guy that refers to you as babe, baby, doll, or anything that's not your name is not worth your time. Especially if he's using those names early on in the relationship. Because if he starts calling you by pet names that quickly, his ultimate goal is more than likely not to get to know the real you.
2. He constantly asks for inappropriate photos.
Any guy that wants more than to just "get in your pants" will respect you enough to not ask for photos. If he asks on a regular basis even after you say no, then you really know he's not worth your time.
3. He says he's not ready for a commitment.
Now, I do believe that a lot of people aren't ready for commitment; you do have to be in a good mental place for a relationship like that. However, any guy that uses you for all the benefits of a relationship without committing to you is not worth your time.
4. He only texts you when it's convenient for him.
If he doesn't text you throughout the day, even when he's a little busy, then he's not worth your time. If he texts you when he's drunk or when he's finally in town for the night, he's just not worth it. Never let anyone use you for the times that are convenient for them. A guy that is genuinely interested in you will try to talk to you as much as possible, not just when they find the time.
5. He claims that all his exes are crazy.
If all of his ex-girlfriends are evidently crazy, that just can't be a coincidence. Chances are, he is the crazy one, considering that he's not mature enough to say good things about an ex. (One or two crazy exes is understandable, but all of them?) Let's be honest: the problem probably wasn't her, it was him.
6. He doesn't take you out.
If he won't take you out, walk away. Like, hello? If he's not proud of you and doesn't want to show you off, then he sure as hell doesn't deserve you. Find someone who is going to take you all around town, just because.
Know your worth, know that you deserve more than the guy who only calls you after 10 p.m. because he's drunk and wants to hook up. He's not worth your time because he doesn't take the time for you. Why waste your time on someone who won't spend their time and efforts on you?
He's not worth you time, and it's time to walk away.
