As a girl who enjoys watching sad and romantic movies that make me reflect on my singleness, I’ve learned to accept the fact that boys are never the option.

I am THAT single friend.

It always feels like everyone around me is happy and in a relationship, but for some reason, the only “guys” in my life are Ben and Jerry.

1. You Can Enjoy Ice Cream Whenever You Want

Unlike boys, ice cream is flexible and always there when you need it to be. You can pick it up and put it down whenever you please, which makes it easy to avoid conflict. No need to worry about clinginess or getting annoyed with the same person, because you can always walk away or throw it away.

2. You Don’t Have To Commit To One Flavor

What’s the point of spending all your time searching for the perfect guy if you can just stare at all of your options at one time? Imagine being able to openly choose from different flavors each time you plan to enjoy ice cream. Even finding the perfect flavor is easy, because you get to try a taste of each option.

3. Ice Cream Is Always Comforting For The Soul

Whether celebrating something or mourning your singleness, ice cream is that one dessert that is acceptable in all situations. Although it’s always portrayed as a dessert that’s only enjoyable for crying, heartbroken girls, it never fails to cheerfully bring people together. Ice cream can also be the perfect addition to any family or friend event because happiness follows in its container.

4. Ice Cream Is The Best Netflix And Chill Partner

When you’re bored, the best option is to kick back and enjoy your favorite ice cream while binge-watching your favorite show on Netflix. The best part is that you’ll never have to question if you’re actually watching Netflix or if it was just a trick that is expected to lead to other things. There is nothing else more relaxing or better than ice cream and Netflix.

5. Ice Cream Won’t Play With Your Feelings

The most heartbreaking thing that is centered around ice cream would be taking a trip to the store and your favorite flavor not being in stock. Besides that, ice cream is pretty loyal. You’ll never have to worry about what they meant by little actions, or if you defined the relationship because it will always be an open yet committed relationship between you and ice cream.

6. There Are So Many Other Options And Additions

Don’t ever feel the need to get repetitive with the ways that you enjoy ice cream. The best part about ice cream is that you can always make unplanned decisions and change it up here and there. You’ll never be pressured into taking risks that you’re unsure of. No more worrying about unreciprocated feelings, or if he’s going to notice the selfie you posted. The best way to avoid heartbreak is to find happiness in the simple things in life, like ice cream.