Touring a college campus is extremely intimidating. Prospective students watch groups of kids saunter off to class with friends on either side. The fear of not fitting in immediately sinks in. Thousands of new freshman wonder,"What if I can't find my niche?" Besides obtaining a degree, meeting new people and cultivating life-long friendships is something college can do for students. The idea of starting over in a new town is scary to everyone even if some people try to deny it. As you find your way around campus be sure to think about these 5 easy ways to make your own friends and develop a home away from home.
1. Find something in common with the person sitting next to you.
In the beginning of the school year, nerves kick in and even some extroverts find themselves feeling scared to meet new people. If you see someone with the same agenda as you, possibly strike up a conversation about planning and class schedules. Talk about neutral things: professors, majors, hometowns. These are super easy ways to chit-chat about things you may have in common.
2. Go to free events on campus.
OK, so these may be the cheesiest events you'll ever attend but you might end up in line waiting for free food and realize the person in front of you is in your Baby Bio class!
And also because nobody should Wobble alone. Nobody.
3. Become friends with your roommate(s).
Often the first people you meet in college are your suite mates. Being friendly with one another can lead to a positive living space. These roommates can be your go-to friends for studying and walking to class, too. They will have your back!
4. Join a school club or organization based on your interests.
Once you do some research, you can definitely find a variety of clubs to join based on what you like. Enjoy writing? Sign up for membership into an online publication. Do you miss playing soccer? Try out for your school's intramural league. Look for flyers across campus for even more possibilities.
5. Skip studying in your dorm and opt for the lounge.
Dorms are insanely small and can be difficult to concentrate in. If you are doing some light homework or cramming for a test, sometimes it's easier to move away from your home and into the community lounge. If you find yourself working at a large table, maybe extend an offer to grab snacks. Asking people questions can help break the ice and keep the conversation flowing.
Good luck out there and remember to be yourself.
