Everyone at some point in their life finds themselves in a slump. Maybe you don't know what you want, you can't make a big decision, or you just don't feel like yourself anymore. During this difficult time in slumps
1. Declutter your closet-- yes, even the dress that is too small but would look perfect if you met Harry Styles.
It's hard to get rid of clothes sometimes, for me it's especially hard to get rid of t-shirts that I got from activities or events I have participated in. But, handing off a big bag of clothing to goodwill is one of the most satisfying feelings.
Anything that you haven't worn in the past 6 months needs to leave, and then you will be left with clothing you love and room in your closet to experiment with new fashions. Feeling great about the clothes you wear and how you look will help you feel confident and better about yourself!
2. Mess with your hair-- cut it, dye it, shave it, regrow it, and then cut it again.
We've all been there, trying to figure out what new style you should try-- next time you find yourself in a hair rut, consider the big chop! A drastic haircut, a crazy color, or even a daring shaved section can help you feel like a completely new person! If you aren't ready for a big jump, just try dip died ends or taking off a little more hair with your next trim!
3. Write down the things that stress you out or make you angry, then tear, burn, or throw the paper.
This is was not my idea, but one afternoon when I came home from an especially hard day in middle school my mom told me to do exactly this. I wrote down what was making me upset, then threw it into our fireplace and watched it disappear-- it was better than any rant session I have ever had.
While talking through situations can be a great thing to do, having a rant session can also end up riling you up more. Sometimes it's better to just acknowledge the negative thing, watch it disappear, and then let it go from your mind and your thoughts. After you feel and watch all the stress leave your life, you can focus on the positive aspects of your life and can feel better about your everything.
4. Don't pick up a new "hobby", but do try something new.
Do not under any circumstances try to force yourself into a hobby - especially if you have to pay for classes! However, do try something new-- you can look on Pinterest and find some simple DIYs, try drawing or painting something for a friend, or transform an old piece of clothing into a new fashion piece. Forcing yourself to do a class or start an expensive hobby is not always the best option, but doing a few simple projects that will give you fun outcomes is a good way to spend time and have fun!
5. Buy a white board and make it a goal board.
On this board write your future goals, current goals, and put up your to-do list for the day or week. This will help you visualize your future goals, and crossing stuff off of your to-do list will help you feel accomplished. This idea will also help you figure out what you want, which will make you feel more in tune to yourself.
Here is the link to create the goal board pictured above.
