Most guys seem to think girls have mind reading skills and can know what their thinking, fun fact- we don’t. Most of us will even doubt you like us after you flat out tell us you like us, you have to show us that you care, and I am going to tell you the prime ways to do so.
1. Send those good morning/night texts.
These leave us with a sense of being wanted, they tell us that we’re on your mind before you go to sleep and when you wake up, and it literally only takes 30 seconds to do it. I know because I’ve counted, typing “Good morning” or “good night” literally only takes 30 seconds, if you want to add the cute “beautiful” to the end, then it’s an additional 5 seconds, but nonetheless 30 freaking seconds.
2.Tell her that you are busy and will call her when you can.
Most of the time, you guys act like we automatically know when you're busy, guess what? We don’t! So when you don’t respond to our text for over an hour, we begin to think that we’re extremely annoying, that we said something wrong, etc. Tell us that you’re busy, don’t leave us hanging.
3. Send her a cute text saying that you’re thinking of her randomly.
This one literally makes our entire day 100x better. If you are thinking of us, tell us, it will put the biggest grin on our faces.
4. Send her pictures of things that you see that remind you of her.
Getting a picture with a caption saying “reminded me of you” is one of the best feelings in the world, because it tells us that you listen when we talk to you, that you actually hear the words that we are saying.
5. Ask how her day is going, or how it went, or how something that she told you about went.
Knowing that you remember when we tell you that we were going to lunch with a friend or that we went to a big meeting, shows us that you care enough to remember things we tell you and that you want to hear our rambling.
Bonus tip: If you don’t care, aren’t feeling it anymore, not interested anymore, tell her. Nothing is worse than thinking you’ve lost someone but not knowing for sure. It’s best to be honest with her, it hurts less than being ghosted, ignored, or being entertained out of sympathy.
