Whether you've been together for a month or a year, long distance relationships are something you have to work hard to maintain. There are two people in the relationship meaning there must be two people putting forth effort to keep it intact. While it can be difficult at times, a long distance relationship is a great way to grow an even stronger bond as well as putting that bond to the test. So whether you're new to long distance or you've been at it for while, take a look at these tips to make the most of it!
1. Don't talk too much.
Just because you're apart physically doesn't mean you need to communicate excessively. Talking all day, everyday is not a necessity in keeping the relationship together. Obsessively interacting while apart can actually make the situation worse and drive one person away. Don't get me wrong, text, call, Facetime, keep it interesting, but don't forget that you two need your own space as well! Leave some things to the imagination so that when you reunite, you'll still have something to talk about.
2. Do things together.
Who says you can't go on virtual dates? Facetime movie dates are one of many long distance date nights. Go shopping - online of course! Be creative, play games, learn new things. You know each other better than anyone, entertain each other's interests.
3. Remain honest and loyal.
Maybe your partner doesn't necessarily love you going out without them, but this doesn't mean you need to keep yourself in a bubble. Take this opportunity to spend more time with friends and family and work on those bonds too. Go out! Have fun! But, let them know what you're up to. Just because they might not like something you do, doesn't mean you should hide it from them. That will only create distrust. Avoid being careless just because they aren't around and putting them in a position where they feel vulnerable. Do what you think is right, but stay loyal and keep them in the loop.
4. Get on the same level.
Setting expectations for this long distance relationship can reduce the likelihood of letting someone down or getting too attached. Ground rules are a great basis for remaining open and keeping the communication positive. Declare your commitment to each other before you part and utilize that to strengthen your relationship.
5. Visit each other.
Surprise visits are the most exciting part of long distance relationships! Planned visits are just as amazing, but there's just something about seeing the look on your partner's face when you show up unexpectedly. It could be just what they need, especially the initial hug. Go on more personal dates, have sing-alongs in the car, and get to know their family better. Nothing feels better than being reunited.
