My height has always been my biggest insecurity. Growing up as "that tall girl" has come with its fair amount of stereotypes. As a 6'0" female, there seems to be some sort of invitation stamped on my forehead to ask me about my height. I know people aren't asking maliciously, but please, next time just let me grocery shop in peace.
1.) How Tall Are You?
This may seem like I'm being oversensitive, but I can't remember a single day of my life where I haven't been asked this question. Most of the time I don't mind that much, but when I'm merely a shell of a human being waiting in line to get my morning coffee or quietly studying in the library with my headphones in, I'd suggest asking later or making an educated guess.
2.) What Sport Do You Play?
I'm well aware it would be ideal if I played volleyball or basketball, but height is not synonymous with athleticism. Believe me, I have the hand-eye coordination of a newborn foal. I was a dancer and that was the answer I usually gave people when they asked, and I could sense their disappointment through their simple: "oh." And please, I beg, don't be that person to say "but you'd be so good at it!" or "well you should!" No, I shouldn't, and I have no obligation to. I'm not wasting my height by not using it in conventional ways, let me do me.
3.) You Could be a Rockette!
I know I said that I'm a dancer, but no, I actually couldn't be a Rockette even if I wanted to; their height cutoff is 5'10", I'm too tall even for the queens of being tall. But that's okay, becuase I don't have to put my height on display, and I'm perfectly happy writing.
4.) Shopping for Clothes Must be so Hard
Yeah, it's a nightmare, I'm well aware. I still haven't mastered the art of finding bottoms that fit correctly, especially when the tall brands at most stores still aren't long enough.
5.) You're Tall
I saved the worst for last. A majority of the time this is all that people will say to me. How do I respond? It's an observation, not a compliment. It feels rude to just say: "yep" and move on, and most of the time people use a tone that offends me a little. It's just too blunt; I don't tell everyone else "you're short" and leave, so please don't do the same to me.
When encountering a tall person, just remember to treat them like an actual human being instead of an exotic animal. It's harsh but true. Just be courteous of the fact that we all come in different shapes and sizes and we can all live in harmony without fear judgement for our choice in extracurriculars or simply by existing in our own way!
