So you think you want to go Greek. You've probably heard both good and bad things about it from a variety of people, but on your own accord, you've decided you might as well try it. Way to go, you made a decision for yourself. However, going Greek is more than just the decision to rush. It is a lifetime commitment. I know how that sounds... clique, exaggerated, and possibly even intimidating. To an extent it is all of those things, but even greater than that...it's your home.
1. Do not go Greek for the Frat stars and Sorostitutes
I cannot tell you how many times I've heard people who aren't Greek say that they want to rush to meet hot singles. Don't go Greek to find a one night stand or for your future spouse because trust me...you will be disappointed when you make all those commitments to your organziation and still don't find Mr. or Mrs. Right.
2. Do not go Greek for access to fake IDs, parties, and drug dealers
Once again, you'll be disappointed. You are better off looking for those things on Craig's List. If that is the only idea you have of a good time...look out for the philanthropy events and study hours because you are going to be less than thrilled.
3. Do not go Greek to put letters in your social media Bio
Many Greeks have their letters displayed in their short bio on Instagram and Twitter, along with the school they go to, and maybe a cheesy quote. And there is nothing wrong with that, you are going to want to show off your letters, but not because it's going to make people want to follow you more or boost your social status. You are going to want to put them there to say look what I represent.
4. Do not go Greek for a popularity contest
It is true that joining Greek life does get you access to lots of new faces, and often these people become your very best friends. However, joining Greek life just to find the "friends" that are going to make you look the best and make you the coolest on campus is not the way to go.
5. Do not go Greek for anyone but yourself
Joining Greek life is a life-time commitment. It's an amazing experience and if you ask those who are a part of it, they'd probably say the exact same thing. However, it is still a commitment. It takes time, energy, resources, and money. Dedication is necessary and you have to really love it or it won't feel worth it to you. Don't rush because your best friend is or because you've heard it's the cool thing to do. Rush because you want to meet your best friends for life.
It's cheesy, but finding your place in Greek life really is your home away from home. So don't rush for any other reason except that you want to find where you fit at your school and where you'll fit in the future. Greek life gives you countless opportunities, both personal and professional. So before going Greek, think about if you want to make a commitment to a group of people for a lifetime. You won't regret it.