Our mothers are our backbone. They are our best friends. They are our voices of reason, even when we would rather not hear it. They are the unconditional love that we all need. They are always here for us, and we should do something in return for it. A simple call in the middle of the day to a mother is like getting a Christmas present a week early. A random text gives her the expression one gets when the waiter is bringing their meal to the table. A random act like this may seem so incredibly small to the generation of today, but it is so important.
1. She actually wants to hear about your day.
A lot of people ask, but don't really want a play by play on how cute the barista was or how rude some girl in your 10 a.m. lecture is. But your mom does, trust me.
2. She wants to use you as an outlet too.
Sometimes we get so caught up in ourselves that we forget our mom's have lives too. They have bad days at work, a funny story to tell, or a friend that made her upset. Ask her about her day, let her vent too.
3. She doesn't appreciate just a text.
Texting is sometimes a more efficient channel of communication, but it's just not as personal. For those of us blessed with mothers that understand how to text, or, at least, understand shorthand, this part may not apply to you. But for most of us, a reply with a simple "ok" to our moms would mean we are angry and dissatisfied with her text. When in reality, we mean just that. We literally mean "okay." So try and pick up the phone, there she'll be able to articulate your attitude better.
4. Sometimes she just wants to hear your voice.
Being away from family is hard for a collegiate. Sometimes, I avoid calling home in order to rid myself of feeling homesick. In the long run, this isn't a good idea. Your mom dealt with you for 18 years. She deserves to hear from you at least once a day.
5. She is the only one that will tell you the awful truth.
Though it may come off harsh, it is worth it. Through this truth, comes advice that you need to learn to take. A mom has a keen sense of knowing what's wrong with you without you having to say it. She'll tell it like it is, and you will definitely be better for it.
I know college is hard. I know that partying seems more important than your nightly call to your mom. I know she may even get on your nerves sometimes. But guess what? You are more than likely get on her nerves too.
Have a party that night? Call her early. Have a long hard day of studying ahead? Call her and let her know all about it. A mother is someone you don't want to ever estrange yourself from. She is your best friend. She also saw you through your drama queen teen years that you'd like to pretend didn't happen, so the least you could do is give her a call.
