I think it’s safe to say that most of us have wondered what it would be like to have a career working with children at least once in our lives, whether it be a dream or a nightmare. Working with young kids is not for everyone; it is demanding, stressful, and takes a certain kind of patience. However, this field is rewarding and brings a whole lot of joyous memories. Here are five moments that make anyone who works with kids stop and appreciate their jobs.

1. The expression on a child’s face when they finally solve a problem

Kids love when they are able to do things themselves; that is why it frustrates them when they are unable to achieve a goal. Whether it be a hard math problem or a broken toy, they will won’t be satisfied until the problem is solved or the toy is fixed. When they finally accomplish their task, their faces light up with satisfaction. They are proud of themselves, and you are proud of them too. You may even receive a thank you for the help you provided them with, which will make everything 10 times better.

2. The moment when you calm a child down after being angry or upset

There is nothing worse than a child you’re working with being upset or angry. Most of the time, it could be frustrating for you because it is over something completely ridiculous. Recently I had a child get upset with me because I told him he was not allowed to play with the custodian’s broom. He told me that I was being mean and proceeded to tear up. This stung. However, I sat him down and we had a little chat. We ended up coming up with a compromise and I even got a high-five at the end of our conversation.

3. When you see kids working together

When you see children going out of their way to help another child, it feels like all your work has paid off. It is amazing to watch a child comfort another child after they’ve gotten hurt or upset. You know that the child on the receiving end feels good to have a peer by their side, and you are proud of the child providing the assistance.

4. Being reunited with a child you are used to seeing every day

You don’t know how much you love seeing the same kids every day until you go without seeing them for a while. Then, you don’t realize how much you missed them until you are reunited with them. Once you return, you feel as if you have transformed into a celebrity. It is not unusual to be bombarded with excited children, trying to give you a hug.

5. The little things that they do to show they appreciate you

It is always nice to be appreciated. However, I find it even more meaningful when a child shows that they are thankful for you because they are so genuine. It doesn’t take much for a child to show they care. It could be an overly excited “hello”, a high-five, or a drawing they made in arts-and-crafts. Whatever the gesture is, it makes you feel admired and important.