5 Lessons This Semester Has Taught Me Thus Far

5 Lessons This Semester Has Taught Me Thus Far

"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." -Romans 8:28

The past 3 months have been filled with countless lessons that have helped me learn more about how to better care for myself in the midst of trials and difficult circumstances. The five listed below are the ones that have been the most significant in helping me to grow both spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.

1. It's okay to say no

Sometimes it can feel like it's just easiest to say yes, but then you are stuck will all these commitments and plans that can overwhelm you. I'm learning that you do not need to always provide an explanation or reason for your answer, all you must say is no.

2. Alone time is important

There are many times where even just the thought of being alone scares me for various reasons, but something I am learning more and more is that taking time for yourself is actually really healthy. Spending time alone can allow you to breathe, decompress, and process things as you take time to care for yourself in this way.

3. Allow others to care for you

Just as you must take time to care for yourself, it is also important to allow others to help you in your time of need. This can sometimes be difficult to allow others to see the brokenness or trial you are facing, but there are so many people who desire to serve and love you and surround you in your time of need. For me, even just asking for prayer, or expressing a tiny bit of the pain I'm feeling to someone I trust can help provide comfort.

4. Life is full of seasons

I don't just mean the four seasons that exist within nature, but the different times in our life where we face different circumstances. Sometimes these periods can be filled with extreme hardships and difficulties. I've dealt with this several times over the past year, and the reality that the pain and emotions that accompany these situations won't last forever. They are just part of a season of your life, whether that lasts a month, six months, or a year; the hardship that your facing is not a permanent condition for your life.

5. God really is always good

In the midst of trials it can oftentimes be really hard to trust that this is true, but I have learned that it really is. Looking back over the seasons of life that I have been through, I can now see how God was working things together for my benefit even when I did not realize it. In the midst of affliction it can be hard to feel God or understand what good could possibly exist in the future, but sometimes these trials are just preparing us for something else. I am holding fast to this truth as I navigate the current tribulations and pain that exists in my life. I am anxiously awaiting the day where I can look back on this time and see how God used it for my advantage, but for now I will have hope and trust in His plans for my future.

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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The Notre Dame Cathedral–Such A Loss Of History And Beauty, But What A Gift It Was To Experience It

Reid shares her story as she is saddened for Paris and the church.


After the massive fire that devastated large parts of the Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris, the 850-year-old cathedral's spire fell. French President Emmanuel Macron addressed the nation to share in the nation's sorrow but gave hope for the future. This includes the rebuilding of the cathedral together and making it more beautiful than ever. "The fire of Notre Dame reminds us that our story never ends. And that we will always have challenges to overcome. What we believe to be indestructible can also be touched," Macron said.

Tyler Reid

Among many others, Tyler Reid is saddened for Paris and the church. Although, she counts herself blessed to have seen it such a short time before it was destroyed. Reid, who was lucky enough to visit the amazing structure this past spring break, remarked:

My trip was filled with so many wonderful sites. Although, because Notre Dame carries the title of most-visited monument in Europe, my expectations were high. When I first walked up, there isn't one specific feeling I got; instead, it was more of a million thoughts running though my head. Once inside, looking at the massive stained glass windows combined with all the details in every crevice, it was hard for me to imagine people actually building this without the technology we have today. This hand crafted masterpiece really is so influential considering people still went there to worship, even after so much time has past and so many other cathedrals had been built. This proves how special the Notre Dame Cathedral really is. Due to my experience here, hearing about the fire hurt my heart, especially thinking about how some of the irreplaceable artworks and all of this history may be gone. This place truly influenced people, including me, and for it to be gone is a true tragedy.

Like Macron, Reid shares in the sorrow; although, for her, it was just from one visit. This proves the amazing impact the Notre Dame Cathedral had and hopefully will continue to have even after this devastation.

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