I've learned quite a few things at college: how to do laundry, fix a clogged sink, and balance classes with work. But some lessons have stuck with more than others – here are five lessons that I've learned since high school!
1. Find best friends who are loyal and encouraging.
I was very lucky during my freshman year to find a roommate who soon became one of my best friends and we continued to be roommates through the next three years. We soon found two other kindred spirits to make the fantastic four. They are always there for me whether I need to vent, laugh, or just to watch a new TV show. They are caring, witty, and beautiful women inside and out. Pick the friends that will stay by your side through thick and thin.
2. Date the nice guy.
The nice guy is often underestimated. But sometimes "nice" can mean clever, kind and emotionally mature. Date someone who has more than just good looks or popularity. Date the guy who has hobbies, goals, and things that he’s passionate about. Date a guy who loves his family and treats everyone with respect. Date someone who is positive and encouraging. Date the nice guy.
3. Be (a little) adventurous.
Let me clarify this by saying I am not an adventurous person. I do not consider myself to be an adventurous person and neither does anyone else. But, lately, I have been encouraged to add a little spice to my life. I’m not saying that you have to go crazy, but try some ethnic, spicy food that you've never had before, join a new organization, or go on a spontaneous beach trip with friends.
4. Parents are the best.
I'm 580 miles away from home and I miss it terribly. Mom and Dad are my encouragement committee and free advice givers. I miss my mom’s meals and dad’s constant jokes. I miss watching TV show marathons with mom and having deep and meaningful talks with dad. Most of all, I miss the tight round-the-neck hugs that only proud parents give. Even though they are willing to take my calls at any time it’s different than getting to be around them.
5. Be kind and grateful.
Whether it’s chatting up the lady behind the counter at the coffee shop or editing someone’s paper, a little kindness goes a long, long way. If you are nice to people then they could be willing to bend over backward for you. I am currently working on my application to law school. The number of people who are willing to take the time to write recommendation letters, edit sections of my application, or just answer my questions constantly amazes me. My thank you note list is a mile long and I couldn’t be happier.
I've got many more lessons to learn in college and beyond, but I'm glad that I could share just a few of them with you all! Happy Thanksgiving!
