In the months since I’ve left for college, I’ve come to recognize that the friends I’ve had since childhood are some of the best parts of my life. Sometimes I want to share a story or a funny moment with them, but they aren’t here and texting just isn’t the same. I’m always excited to see them over break because, as people say, there’s no place like home.
1. They get you.
I’ve known most of my closest friends from home for the majority of my life. More than a decade of friendship has naturally lead to them knowing me better than anyone else. This fact is one of the things I miss the most about having them around. When we’re together, I don’t need to explain myself. They know if I’m happy, upset or when I just need a nap. I also have a pretty sarcastic sense of humor and I never need to worry about offending them with something I say because they know I’m just kidding (most of the time).
2. They've seen you at your worst and still love you
I have definitely had more than my fair share of embarrassing moments (haven’t we all?). Luckily, (or maybe not) my best friends have always been there with me to experience, and sometimes even document, the times when I am not at my best. When I think about all the memories we’ve made and the lessons we’ve learned, I can’t help but appreciate their friendship a little bit more. The adventures I have been on with my friends are unforgettable and I can’t wait to go on more once we are all home again.
3. They know how to cheer you up.
There’s nothing that can pick me up when I’m feeling down like a pep-talk or hangout with my friends. I have them to thank for the endless love and support whenever I need it. Whether it’s a night out, dinner date, or just staying in to watch our favorite shows (i.e. The Bachelor), I always leave feeling better than I did before.
4. They give the best advice
My best friends know me and what I’ve been through better than anyone. When I’m off at school, I know I can count on the group chat to get feedback on even the smallest issues. I’m always confident that they have my best interest in mind and will support me no matter what happens.
5. You can go months without seeing them and reunite like nothings changed
Leaving my friends for college in the fall was extremely hard for me. I was worried that we would meet new people and that nothing would be the same when we all returned over break. Fortunately, that was almost the opposite of what happened. Making new friends at school was exciting but it made me even more grateful for the ones I already had. When I arrived home and we all saw each other again for the first time since August, it was like we never left. Jokes were made, food was eaten (in very large quantities), and I was reminded why I missed them so much in the first place.
