From the time I was a baby until I was six years old, I lived with my single mom. My mom met my stepdad when I was six. Then came along my baby sister. We were always the family that had only enough money for the things needed in life. My sister and I seldom were able to get what we wanted or go out. Grocery shopping with our family meant getting nothing more than the necessity items. Growing up like this wasn't always fun, but it taught me many life lessons. All throughout high school I worked, which required juggling things within my life. Out of all the struggles we encountered, I wouldn't have wanted to live any other way. Some of the biggest lessons learned from this lifestyle have made me the person today. Here are some of the lessons living in struggle has taught me.
1. Independence
Having to work in high school, and at most times, having two to three jobs, it was a struggle. This made me grow up and learn to take care of myself. If I wanted something from the store or wanted to go see a movie with friends I was responsible for it. My parents couldn't do it for me. I have learned to do for myself and not depend on other people to get it done for you.
2. Selflessness
When you growing up and having to work on your own, you become very selfless. You realize that the "real world" isn't easy and your parents sacrificed a lot for you, and that it is now your turn. As I worked and received my paychecks I would give my mom some money or I would pay for various things. I didn't only offer this to my mom, but everyone. I learned to do for others.
3. Time Management
Considering I was in high school, I had a lot ahead of me. I had to manage my time well that way I maintained good grades and had a good work ethic. I had to go to school, then work, along with figuring out when I would study, do homework, eat, and shower. This wasn't always easy, especially working three jobs at once. You learn to managed and juggle everything with there isn't any other option.
4. Appreciation
Since, you don't have a lot of money, you learn to appreciate the little things in life. You are thankful for the people in your life. Materialistic things are nothing, but the relationships in your life mean the most. Not only do you appreciate the little things, but you start realizing that its not easy to manage everything. This gives you a clearer view on how much your parents really do for you whether you have everything you want or nothing.
and most of all.........
5. Purpose in Life
Life has a purpose. We all have a purpose for our life. Some people will find it sooner rather than later, but we all have a reason for being here. Through the tough times you learn your strengths and weaknesses. I have found through my life that I love helping other people in anyway I can. Life truly is beautiful.
We always have to remember that everything happens for a reason. Everything has a purpose. Your struggles are tough, but they lead to better things. Keep your head held high and smile! Life has a lot to offer.
