Although it might come as a shock to some of you, believe it or not, sometimes people suck and life can get kind of complicated as soon as you hit your twenties. While most people try to simplify this crazy thing that we call life, the truth is, we're all a little lost and most of us are very confused.
For those of us who are twenty-something, here is a list of some things that we need to be reminded of from time to time. And sometimes, remembering these things makes life a little clearer.
1. Relationships aren't always going to be easy, and some require more work than others, but if you don't see your relationship going anywhere, whether it be romantic or platonic, get out of it while you still can.
2. There's never a good excuse to treat a person poorly; do to others as you want others to do you.
3. Listen to people when they talk, you never know what you might learn.
4. Salvador Dali said it best; don't do drugs... Be drugs.
5. Never feel embarrassed about believing in something, even if others don't feel the same as you do.
6. There are not too many times when arguing is worth it.
7. Everyone is going through something, whether you know it or not. Be patient.
8. Sometimes it isn't until you show a sign of weakness that you will feel strong again.
9. Never let anyone tell you that you're not good enough. You are.
10. Listen, smile, nod your head. But then make your own decisions. You're the only one who knows what is best for yourself.
11. You're never going to make everyone happy. Do what makes you happiest and f*** what anyone else thinks.
12. Never showing your feelings doesn't make you a strong person. It actually makes you pretty weak.
13. Don't get caught up in the past. The present is the only thing you can control right now.
14. Not everyone you meet is going to be your best friend, but it's okay to have more than one best friend.
15. When someone has a bad attitude, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.
16. Let people know what you expect from them, no one can read your mind.
17. If you don't feel like going out one (or 10) night(s), don't. You're not going to miss anything other than class the next morning.
18. It's not the mistake that kills you. It's making the same mistake over and over again that really does it.
19. When someone says that they don't deserve someone as great as you, believe them.
20. Tinder messaging is very different than a meaningful conversation with someone you care about.
21. Consider where you're getting your information from.
22. The best things always happen when you least expect them to.
23. There's a difference between a "complicated" relationship and a manipulative one. Learn it.
24. Love yourself. You deserve it.
25. Be yourself because absolutely no one in this world could ever be a better you than, well, you.
26. Don't be afraid to try new things.
27. It's better to be weird than to be boring.
28. There is no such thing as normal.
29. Fight for what you believe in.
30. If you can't stop thinking about something or someone, go for it.
31. Sometimes maybe means maybe, but other times maybe means no.
32. There's always going to be someone hotter, smarter, funnier, or with better hair. Stop comparing. You are your own perfect self.
33. Stop waiting and just do it. You may never have another chance.
34. Travel the world. There is so much out there to see.
35. Never take anyone for granted.
36. What Susie says of Sally says more of Susie than of Sally. Same goes for you.
37. Don't make excuses. Not for yourself or for anyone else.
38. When you question yourself, that's a good thing. It means that you know you still have room to grow.
39. Believe in yourself.
40. Call your parents. They're still worried about you no matter what age you are.
41. You never need the last shot, but sometimes it's okay to take it anyway.
42. Laugh often.
43. Tell the people that you love and care for that you love and care for them.
44. Eat clean -- It really will make you feel better in the long run.
45. You're never going to be this young again. Take advantage of it every chance that you get.
