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CBD Lip Balm Is The Calming Presence You Need In Your Life, Trust Me
I tried lip balm, sleep gummies, and an oil dropper from CBDistillery. Here's the final verdict.
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CBD has been on making waves within the wellness space for the last few years. Generally related to the treatment of anxiety, insomnia, and chronic pain, it's growing easier to find small CBD companies who are making products specifically designed to fit your needs. As FDA rules for CBD production can be a little hazy, it's true that not all CBD products are created equally. That's why it's important to look into the manufacturing of whatever you're deciding to try, especially if you're new to taking CBD.
As someone who has tried a variety of CBD products — some victories, some failures — I was thrilled when CBDistillery sent me a package of their favorites. They included a Broad Spectrum CBD Oil Tincture, their Nighttime Gummies, and a CBD Lip Balm.
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</div></p><h2>First impression <br></h2><p>The first thing I noticed about these products was how clearly marked the active ingredients were. Many CBD products have smaller percentages of THC (the active ingredient in marijuana that gives you that "high" feeling), but CBDistillery's PM gummies products are marked at 0 percent THC. The tincture (oil dropper) has a disclaimer of "may contain trace amounts of <0.05% THC," and the lip balm does not mention THC anywhere on the label. </p><p>I was most excited about the nighttime gummies and the lip balm — I've taken CBD gummies for my insomnia previously and was hoping for a sure success. The lip balm intrigued me. It has a smaller dose than either of the other products, but the thought of smaller quantities more often throughout the day appealed to me. Each of these products contains a different dose of CBD: the nighttime gummies have 30mg per serving, the dropper has 17mg per serving, and the lip balm contains 25mg total for the tube. <br></p><h2>The verdict </h2><p>The nighttime gummies, while probably effective for those with mild restlessness, did not help me sleep through the night. Instead, I was restless, tossing and turning and waking up groggy. Previous experience has taught me that my tolerance to sleep assistance is on the high end of the spectrum, so the fact that these are not a one-size-fits-all didn't surprise me. </p><p>The oil dropper met my expectations. It tasted herby, sharpened my focus, and felt like a big, deep breath. It didn't change my life, but it did greatly improve it. I will definitely continue using it, especially on days I feel extra anxious or fidgety. I noticed how one dose in the morning set the tone for my day, and it was incredibly helpful, especially if I was busy and had a lot to accomplish. </p><p>The best product of this little gift set? The lip balm. I didn't know I needed my CBD in lip balm form, but here we are! Being able to apply tiny doses, topically not only gave me small, routine focus points throughout the day, but it did make a difference in how calm I felt, without any sudden shifts or grogginess. Everyone should have a CBD lip balm — everyone! </p><h2>What you should buy</h2><p>If you're new to CBD, this is a great starter combination for you. You'll be able to test out what you need, what you like, and how your body reacts to different products (as well as the mediums you are using to put CBD into your body). If you're just choosing one thing? The lip balm, obviously. Take care of your chapped lips and your restless mind with one little product! </p><p><em><em>Editor's note: The views expressed in this article are not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.</em> If you are considering CBD for the first time and take medication, consult your doctor.</em></p><div class="post-pager js-listicle-pager" data-listicle-style="" data-async_load_parameters="platform=desktop&display_ads=1&settings=%7B%22enter_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_post_section%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_breaks%22%3A+null%2C+%22prevent_last_break_repetition%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_numeration%22%3A+false%2C+%22show_columns_on_mobile%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_order%22%3A+%5B3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%5D%2C+%22turn_into_posts%22%3A+null%2C+%22list_breaks%22%3A+null%2C+%22reorder_voting%22%3A+null%2C+%22cooldown_in_seconds%22%3A+null%2C+%22pagination_order%22%3A+null%2C+%22source%22%3A+%22engine_settings%22%2C+%22next_post_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22up_down_voting%22%3A+false%2C+%22allow_url_change%22%3A+null%2C+%22numeration_sort%22%3A+-1%2C+%22allow_url_update%22%3A+null%2C+%22use_pagination%22%3A+false%2C+%22body_text_above%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_ads%22%3A+false%2C+%22items_as_posts%22%3A+false%2C+%22multiple_answers%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_redirect%22%3A+null%2C+%22is_guest_voting_allowed%22%3A+null%2C+%22layout_type%22%3A+null%2C+%22voting_extra_fields%22%3A+null%7D">
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I Asked 100 Dating App Users If They’re More Likely To Swipe Left Because Of Someone's Political Affiliation
It's not just an affiliation.
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We've all been there. You see that super cute guy on your dating app of choice, his bio is funny, and then, the gut-wrenching feeling hits when you see their political views don't exactly line up with yours. He loves Trump, you can't stand him, or vice versa.
A lot of people will say you can get over politics, but I know from personal experience, as well as this survey, that politics play a huge role in whether a relationship will work or if we're even willing to swipe right on that profile.
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<strong>We surveyed 100 people and 90 of them said they would swipe left if someone's politics didn't match their own because a lot of people </strong><strong><a href="https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/equality/" target="_blank">equated their politics with their morals</a>.</strong>
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In fact, <a href="https://www.gq.com/story/political-views-dating-apps-messy" target="_blank">politics are popping up more and more on dating profiles</a> in today's modern age. They're even popping up in people's bios saying things like, "Swipe left if you're X party affiliation" or "Swipe left if you voted for X candidate." The results of our survey are below in the graph, and it's clear: politics are important.
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Curious about what people had to say? Check out some of the responses below. We'll start with 10 of those who fell under the "it's a deal-breaker" category followed by a handful of those who represented the "it's not a big deal" category.
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1. Sydney, 25
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<p>"Yes. I think that everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but think it's hard to move forward with someone if our fundamental beliefs are different."</p>
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2. Anna, 32
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<p>"Yes. People used to get away with saying that they weren't into politics, but now that things are so contentious, it's crucial to be educated. It's gotten to the point where supporting certain politicians means more than political parties, but ethical and moral standings."</p>
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3. Danielle, 24
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<p>"Yes, due to the desire to avoid large arguments over values within myself I am unwilling to change."</p>
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4. Jenna, 34
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<p>"Yes. My politics reflect my values. I already have to argue with my family about politics constantly, I have no desire to date someone who I'm on that different of a page with."</p>
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5. Berit, 20
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<p>"Yes, because the things I stand for politically are very important to me (I'm a liberal), and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't agree with what I stand for."</p>
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6. Katrina, 28
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<p>"Yes because I believe they are a deeper reflection of someone's values. If we share them, that's a bonus."</p>
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7. Kelly, 25
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<p>"Yes, if they have very strong views and those views don't match mine, it's too difficult to try and have a conversation about beliefs. I'd rather avoid the stress altogether and swipe left."</p>
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8. Bobbie, 20
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<p>"Yes, I grew up in a small town and I came to this college to get away from the political mindset opposite of mine. Earlier in college I tried to make those relationships work, but there were always uncomfortable topics we had to avoid. I'm not comfortable in a relationship where we can't talk about anything and everything!"</p>
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9. Michelle, 26
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<p>"Yes. Especially now, I feel like the country is so divided over political views. There are certain things that I need my partner to agree on or AT LEAST see eye-to-eye on and understand my view, and I don't think that's even a thing between parties right now."</p>
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10. Brenda, 24
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<p>"Yes, sharing common values and beliefs is very important to me."</p>
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11. Madeline, 25
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<p>"No, unless they are very outspoken about it on their page."</p>
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12. Lauren, 25
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<p>"Based on their affiliation alone and just counting swiping, then no I wouldn't swipe left just for that. If we are talking about an issue I find important morally and there is disagreement, that is a different story. What WILL make me swipe left is a comment in a bio from someone (either affiliation; I have seen many from both) with a negative comment in their bio about the opposite affiliation in general. I think conversation of opposing sides is healthy for us to learn so anyone that completely shuts it down based on affiliation alone is a turn off for me. (I am unaffiliated if that matters at all!)"</p>
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13. Abbey, 21
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<p>"It really all depends. Initially, no. If they have different views on a topic I'm very passionate about, and it's too drastic of a difference, I probably would stop talking to the person. Political affiliation has never been a major factor for me when it comes to dating, but if they have different views than me and that difference begins to be too much and overwhelming, that's an issue."</p>
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<strong>There we have it. Politics matter. Period. So you better be sure you know what you're getting into if you put your political affiliation on your profile.</strong>
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10 Tips For Making Your Zoom Wedding Special, From A Bride Who Had One Herself
Ending it with a mini-moon is a plus!
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With no sign of the pandemic going anywhere, brides and grooms who planned to be married in 2020 are forced to opt for plan B — if not plan C or D. While some are downsizing their in-person weddings to meet coronavirus guidelines and state restrictions, others are choosing to cancel theirs until further notice and some, well, they're embracing the virtual "I do."
A few weekends ago, I had the pleasure of attending a Zoom wedding for my friend and fellow editor and writer, Kristin Magaldi, and the short-but-sweet ceremony left me in happy tears (surprise surprise). In order to get the scoop on what exactly went into planning a virtual wedding, I asked Kristin to share her best tips so other couples know exactly how to have a Zoom wedding in case they're looking to lean into the video chat vows, too.
<p>Here are the top 10 tips for making your Zoom wedding special, from a bride who had one herself.</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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1. Make sure your state is allowing online ceremonies.
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<p>"For example, my state of New York discontinued online ceremonies past August 6th, meaning we had to move our wedding up. You can likely still have an online ceremony, but you're going to have to wait to go to a city clerk's office to officially sign a marriage license."</p>
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2. Find an officiant who is willing to conduct your ceremony online.
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<p>"If you don't know anyone who can do it for you in person who is also certified to officiate weddings in your state, you can find someone easily on <a href="https://www.theknot.com/" target="_blank">The Knot</a> or <a href="https://www.weddingwire.com/" target="_blank">Wedding Wire</a>. We used Mirelle from <a href="https://www.honeybreakofficiants.com/" target="_blank">Honeybreak Officiants</a> and she was amazing!"</p>
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3. Talk to your officiant about customizing your ceremony.
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<p>"They typically will give you the option to personalize it to whatever extent you want. For us, we didn't decide to write our own vows but instead selected vows from a list given to us by our officiant."</p>
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4. Send guests invites to your video chat meeting ahead of time.
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<p>"And make sure you provide detailed instructions on how to download and access the stream for the ceremony. Even after telling multiple relatives to mute REPEATEDLY in an email, there were still a lot of people who just didn't do it."</p>
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5. Customize the space you decided to have the ceremony in with personal touches.
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<p>"Since we had the ceremony in my apartment, we created a flower arch with some twinkle lights, and I bought a bouquet of flowers off <a href="https://urbanstems.com/" target="_blank">Urban Stems</a> that I tied with white ribbon. I also got some additional matching orange roses from my local florist and added some thistles from a bodega nearby to create a small floral arrangement that matched my bouquet."</p>
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6. Add events to your Zoom ceremony that you would have wanted to have at an in-person wedding.
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<p>"For us, we got a small wedding cake that we cut together and also did a virtual champagne toast with our guests."</p>
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7. Make sure to tell your guests whether or not you're expecting gifts.
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<p>"I didn't think about this until multiple people asked if I had a registry. If you do have a registry, send it out alongside your video link."</p>
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8. Establish a dress code if you want to.
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<p>"I didn't care if guests showed up in their pajamas since we had people Zooming in from all over the world, but if you want to have your guests in wedding attire, make sure you tell them!"</p>
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9. Plan the day out how you want it.
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<p>"We knew we weren't going to be able to have a ton of guests or go on a full-fledged honeymoon so we did everything we wanted to on a smaller scale. My parents, brother, aunt, and uncle attended the ceremony in person in addition to our Zoom guests. After the ceremony, we went out to lunch at a restaurant we absolutely loved and treated ourselves to some amazing cocktails and an incredible meal."</p>
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10. If you can't travel, go on a mini-moon.
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<p>"It wasn't possible for us to go abroad like we wanted to, so instead we splurged on a hotel in Williamsburg, a neighborhood we both loved. The hotel had a rooftop pool so it felt like we were actually getting away. Though it was only one night, it was such a change from what we've been doing in quarantine."</p>
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Luxury Fashion Buys Your Bank Account Couldn’t Justify Till This Year’s Nordstrom Anniversary Sale
In case you needed another reason to get the Prada sunnies you've been eyeing all year.
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Since I can remember first flipping through my older cousin's fashion magazines as an 8-year-old, I've always had several luxury items on my wish list of items I knew I'd never have, but loved to fantasize about.
As I grew into financial independence later in life, the list grew longer, but the ways in which I could toy with my grocery or travel budget for a month to make room for something I really wanted made the items on it more attainable. Even then, I will (virtually) visit an item online several times in the span of a year to test if I still like it months after eyeing it, and to see if by any chance it may have gone on sale.
<p>Once a year, the frequency of my virtual wishlist visitations increases with rapid frequency, and that would be for every fashion lover's Christmas: the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale. </p><p>Of all the luxury fashion buys available at Nordstrom, here are the biggest bank account-approved steals you won't even have to finagle your grocery budget for.</p>
<p><em>Odyssey may earn a portion of purchases made via links on this page.</em></p><p><em>Images courtesy of Nordstrom.</em></p>
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Sam Edelman Evelan Chain Loafer Mule
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sam-edelman-evelan-chain-loafer-mule-women/5589696?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=black%20leatherhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ0NS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY0MDMwMDUwNH0.7dcB3BQujKmOQ6W6ecJDv5HnBAQWbJ87d5SaSemqXkA/img.png?width=980" id="8bfae" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="6b0d7f4157d6062e47fe0017a8a98ce9" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$75
Sam Edelman Davis Knee High Boot
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sam-edelman-davis-knee-high-boot-women/5589700?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=black%20suedehttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ0Ni9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYyODIxMTc1Mn0.xjPn0zgRA75s7HcrqJ1tl0jC2kWUPajpCDJ0a8SBu6w/img.png?width=980" id="95540" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="e6f2300113a8e659266d39b508bc4451" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$150
Allsaints Tara Sweater
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/allsaints-tara-sweater/5612774?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=ballet%20pinkhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ0Ny9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYxNDYzNTg0N30.3H-Lo4lE4D5PZ6ANN5J2FtJa-NsvCnYw62UkAkR-lzM/img.png?width=980" id="0011d" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="503b4f0901528124e31604442f54f7ee" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$199
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Eileen Fisher Prescot Platform Sneaker
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/eileen-fisher-prescot-platform-sneaker-women/5591371?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=olive%20nubuck%20leatherhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ1Mi9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY2MDQ3NTM0Nn0.P7nPUfxzAH-VQ3T_Sru0B4E5D-LVSs4imUa4-A1jfqQ/img.png?width=980" id="5d02e" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="cb8fcd9ce8d0ea9eb1d8897cf4dddae6" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$99
Prada Phantos 54mm Gradient Cat Eye Sunglasses
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/prada-phantos-54mm-gradient-cat-eye-sunglasses/5613423?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=havana%2F%20brown%20gradhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ1My9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY0ODMzNjgyOX0.05UO-QYMNCSYOcc22bF4DrkZ5j0edJ5td-pnSysQcPw/img.png?width=980" id="a7cbf" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="51923825c871fd7c6a2e8e373483995d" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$182
Allsaints Fetch Leather Crossbody Bag
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/allsaints-fetch-leather-crossbody-bag/4910444?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=storm%20greyhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ1Ny9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYwMjQyMDY3NH0.IQKIozknEzbSvne7sUpTlutepYkCWxuBf7XxTmOVQn0/img.png?width=980" id="07bbf" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="626fc31f4f2bb3383abc6507d36a59c0" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$100
The Marc Jacobs Leather Crossbody Bag
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/the-marc-jacobs-leather-crossbody-bag/5611677?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=oatmilkhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ2MC9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYzMDg5OTA3NX0.cMpljFCQ4pmVCgBJUm6m4obWyuI7BPqEok3dRyceBVE/img.png?width=980" id="94d95" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="1b87a2a870cc5a518f8a72ac01553a24" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$165
Sam Edelman Faux Fur Teddy Coat
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sam-edelman-faux-fur-teddy-coat/5615661?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=cognachttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ2MS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYyODQwMjQxMn0.m3tpT8ROAAIeCGNqbBsbxT3sFyPKydm0GXMCnu0L204/img.png?width=980" id="2fa97" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="44bb3f4b9b0ee030f72e96878f60d750" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$100
Allsaints Captain Round Leather Crossbody Bag
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/allsaints-captain-round-leather-crossbody-bag/5206493?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=mist%20greyhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ2Mi9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY0ODUwMDUwOH0.srQ1Hd7yos_C61STjIeFsUbXxEfiQUg5GcVXQ9885DY/img.png?width=980" id="def1b" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="b2895cb26d7b520dfa509ad58f43039c" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$180
Karl Lagerfeld Paris Caralee Cap Toe Slip-On Sneaker
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/karl-lagerfeld-paris-caralee-cap-toe-slip-on-sneaker-women/5615182?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=beige%2F%20black%20leatherhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ2NS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYxNjA2NjE5NX0.tAjEUH-dkEkQNhFPKA9-silrnHpTa19IyRHr0UtN39o/img.png?width=980" id="6712b" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="e0de24e8c31c80a4c157dab895a2301b" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$60
Vince Camuto Beaanna Knee High Boot
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/vince-camuto-beaanna-knee-high-boot-women/5599771?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=black%20leatherhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ2Ny9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY0Nzc5OTgyMH0.8xCmH5Ln4oLuqsFK4IdMJkKCnM8UP2alge3NgPb_KVo/img.png?width=980" id="e9375" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="d88c32c4d001b8dd79c0640684d81eef" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$160
Sam Edelman Notch Collar Coat
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sam-edelman-notch-collar-coat/5622073?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=blue%20heatherhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ2OS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY1ODczNjY1OH0.zLu0g4hFsbSK---3DxthlALH3oHeEvnUaKIk3Qpc4gU/img.png?width=980" id="dbf63" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="aa54415c8293eb317529caa16f8eb28a" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$190
Sam Edelman Faux Shearling Moto Jacket
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sam-edelman-faux-shearling-moto-jacket/5596223?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=brownhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ3OC9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYyODkwODc5Mn0.xbcRN16E1bJ7oYpQX8YzlgGFlaZ5iAT7gh7SBAaf_ok/img.png?width=980" id="fb242" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="a9c4cee010f9ca99980e5222db7e5aad" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$146
Vince Camuto U-Neck Sleeveless Kors Crepe Jumpsuit
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Kenneth Cole New York Windowpane Check Knit Sleeve Coat
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$150
Sam Edelman Notch Collar Coat (Size 1x - 3x)
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sam-edelman-notch-collar-coat-plus-size/5614467?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=blue%20heatherhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ4Ni9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTU5NzY1MDg5OX0.1lUTIkrSNCeb9EiA2CZ-oLoqufP9gu3nnW0WtUClmNk/img.png?width=980" id="c52a7" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="8b42260a48ceb848b72adf7d30aa53b7" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$199
Rebecca Taylor Faux Leather Pants
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$199
Marc Fisher Oshay Pointed Toe Bootie
<a href="https://www.nordstrom.com/s/marc-fisher-ltd-oshay-pointed-toe-bootie-women/5589393?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAnniversary%20Sale%2FWomen&color=black%20snake%20printhttps://click.linksynergy.com/deeplink?id=NNPLpRm9FIA&mid=1237&murl=http%3A%2F%2F" ><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NDQ5MC9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTU5OTkyMTg0Nn0.sV-57PcaCoL0lRBxYYCmNG334-Vm3mHP6UXbWbEfiJg/img.png?width=980" id="a982a" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="51809b885f14f1f2511c122d609d37c0" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
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Vince Camuto Derika Leather Boot
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Calvin Klein Liquid Touch Underwire Push-Up Plunge Bra
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I Went To Disney For The First Time Since COVID-19 And It's Officially The Cleanest Place On Earth
I stopped focusing on the pandemic simply because, for the first time in months, I felt safe.
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After a few months of self-quarantining, becoming suspicious of every cough, and blowing through masks like a medical school student, restrictions due to the pandemic are easing up a bit and businesses are warily reopening. While these public spaces may look the same on the outside, the way they function and operate is vastly different than a few months ago.
<p>During the pandemic, I moved back home to Orlando, Florida. As an annual pass-holder, I was fairly conflicted — part of me was so eager to get back to the parks for some good, old-fashioned fun, but another part of me knew the threat of the virus had not disappeared. So, when Walt Disney World reopened their parks to the public, I waited a few weeks. </p><p><strong>What were their new safety policies? How has the experience changed? Would they have an outbreak and have to close again?</strong> </p><p>I watched social media and news reports pretty closely, and all of the parks got amazing feedback from visitors. So I went. </p><p>Epcot, despite being dubbed "the elderly park," is towards the top of my ranking. The annual Food & Wine Festival had just started so that was the icing on the Mickey-Mouse-shaped cake. The bite-sized food was absolutely incredible, ranging from unique, specialty cuisine to Americanized versions of different cultural staples. There was a wide variety of vegan and vegetarian options throughout the World Showcase, and the beverage selection was diverse enough to satisfy young kids and of-age adults alike. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2646965822-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><h4>As far as the cleanliness goes, I don't think I've seen a business have so many precautions in place without it dampening the experience. </h4><p>Walt Disney World's theme parks have drastically reduced their daily capacity and now require online reservations, so social distancing guidelines were very easy to follow simply because of the reduced number of patrons. This had an unexpected benefit — while fewer people meant a lesser chance of exposure to the virus, it also meant virtually no lines for food and rides. </p><p>Every visitor had their temperature checked upon arrival and was required to wear a mask throughout the duration of their stay, with the only exception being while eating or drinking (while stationary). There were placeholders on the ground designating six feet of distance in every queue line and, in some cases, plastic separators were also utilized. Hand sanitizer dispensers were everywhere and there were portable handwashing stations spread throughout the park to reduce crowding in bathrooms and promote more frequent washing. Trash cans were often changed, soap and sanitizer dispensers were always full, and castmembers were verbally reminding patrons to obey the new health and safety guidelines. </p><p>On the rides, attendants spaced out visitors the best they could. In most cases, families had entire rows or boats to themselves, depending on the attraction type. The rides were sanitized every few uses by cast members, who were extremely quick but efficient. Restaurants did the same thing with their seating and sanitizing. The store sizes were reduced and offered a smaller selection of merchandise, but there was still so much available to buy it was hardly an inconvenience.</p><p>Throughout the entire day at Epcot, I almost forgot the pandemic existed. Not in a literal sense — there were reminders of "the new normal" everywhere I turned. But I stopped focusing on the pandemic simply because, for the first time in months, I felt safe. The number of precautions in place to keep everyone healthy was unlike anything I've seen so far in a public space, and allowed guests to just focus on having fun with their friends and families. </p><p>Walt Disney World's theme parks are setting a new standard of cleanliness and safety during this time of uncertainty, and reminding people that there's a great big beautiful tomorrow waiting — that "tomorrow" is probably somewhere in 2021, but you get the idea. </p>
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Kamala Harris Is The Biggest Hypocrite Of The #MeToo Movement
A vote for Joe Biden is a vote for Kamala Harris — and no one wants a hypocrite for a vice president.
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Joe Biden just chose Kamala Harris to be his running mate against Donald Trump and Mike Pence in 2020. Now, for many reasons, this is hilarious as I think Biden just solidified his fate and gave the election to President Trump, but that's for another time.
<p>What I will address is how much of a hypocrite Harris is for joining the ticket as Biden's running mate. How does this make her a hypocrite? Well, let's look back at the Democratic presidential debates where Harris and Biden were candidates at the time. At this time, there had been sexual harassment allegations against Joe Biden. Several women, including <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joe_Biden_sexual_assault_allegation" target="_blank">Tara Reade</a>, <a href="https://www.thedailybeast.com/joe-biden-two-more-women-come-forward-with-uncomfortable-touching-allegations-nyt" target="_blank">Caitlyn Caruso</a>, <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2019/04/02/us/politics/joe-biden-women-me-too.html" target="_blank">D.J. Hill</a>, and <a href="https://www.thecut.com/2019/03/an-awkward-kiss-changed-how-i-saw-joe-biden.html" target="_blank">Lucy Flores</a> accused Biden of inappropriately touching them or worse. These women came out and told their stories. </p><p><strong>Now, I am not one to say whether these stories are 100 percent true or false. My problem is with the response from Harris.</strong></p><p>At first, she made her presidential campaign all about justice for women and believing survivors. Back in 2018, she event tweeted "<a href="https://twitter.com/kamalaharris/status/1048281670548447233?lang=en" target="_blank">To all survivors of sexual assault: We hear you. We see you. We will give you dignity. Don't let this process bully you into silence</a>." When talking about Joe Biden and his accusers, Harris said that she believed all those women: "<a href="https://www.independent.co.uk/us-election-2020/kamala-harris-police-joe-biden-sexual-assault-law-and-order-2020-election-a9666131.html" target="_blank">I believe them and I respect them being able to tell their story and having the courage to do it</a>."<br></p><p><div id="div-gpt-2646961756-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><p><strong>But once Biden became the Democratic presidential nominee, I guess Harris didn't care about those women anymore.</strong><br></p><p>It's pretty interesting to me how a person can be so gung-ho about helping women come out and empowering women but chooses to endorse somebody multiple women have accused of touching them in ways that made them uncomfortable. It doesn't make sense to me.</p><p>So why did she suddenly change her views about former rival Biden? It's obvious. She wants to be his vice president so badly that she didn't even care if she truly supported the guy. How can she just overlook all of those women's stories and support a guy who's been accused of sexually assaulting or inappropriately touching women? Imagine how all of those women feel knowing that Harris is promoting this man they say assaulted or touched them. It's a complete slap in the face to them and her actions say to me she does not care at all about these women.</p><p><strong>SEE ALSO: <a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/kamala-harris-nomination-women" target="_blank"></a></strong><a href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/kamala-harris-nomination-women">Kamala Harris' As Biden's VP Is The Best Thing To Happen For Women In 2020 </a></p><p>It not only makes Harris look like a hypocrite but in my eyes it makes her look weak. If she was a strong person of character and morals, she wouldn't have changed her views about Biden just so she could get to be his VP. What kind of a person does that make her?</p><p><strong>It makes her a follower, not a leader. </strong></p><p>She doesn't stand for anything because if she truly cared about those women and the #MeToo movement, she would never have accepted the position and never shown support for Biden. Joining Biden's ticket makes her look weak with zero potential to be an adequate vice president. </p><p>The only kind of person who changes their views so quickly is a person who only cares about power. I now believe Harris doesn't actually care about sexual harassment or any other issue. She just says whatever she thinks needs to be said in order for people to like her or vote for her. </p><p>And that, my friend, is the epitome of a hypocrite.</p>
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Entertainment
'Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air' Is Getting A Reboot So We Will Just Chill Out, Max, And Relax Until It's Here
90s kids, rejoice because this is the best thing 2020 has given us.
21h
Nickelodeon
Now, this is a story all about how, "Fresh Prince of Bel-Air" is getting a reboot, and every '90s kid is currently screaming. (Yes, you heard me correctly.)
<p>After a fan-made video went viral in 2019, <a href="https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/fresh-prince-bel-air-drama-reboot-works-1306799?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=social" target="_blank">Will Smith and Morgan Cooper, the creator of the viral video, are teaming up to create a reboot</a> of the beloved series. While some fans <a href="https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/fresh-prince-of-bel-air-reboot-planned-182239809.html" target="_blank">noticed differences in some of the characters' traits</a> and mannerisms, the premise is the same: Will is getting into trouble in Philadelphia and sent to live in the upscale Los Angeles area with his aunt and uncle.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-youtube">
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</p><p>The tone, though, <a href="https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/fresh-prince-bel-air-rebooted-drama-will-smith-produce" target="_blank">is much darker</a> as Will found himself in LA after getting caught with a gun on a basketball court, contrary to the lighthearted rap we heard at the start of each episode in the '90s.</p><p>I have to admit: This is still pretty exciting. While some may critique the harsher or darker tone to the show, I think it could actually be a good thing. We all love the original show, but we're also not kids anymore. Perhaps, a reboot that reframes our beloved show in a more grown-up way will be able to reach us the same way the lighthearted version did in the '90s. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2646963132-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><p>It's also important for the media to show the tough parts of life in realistic ways, and by making the tone of the show a touch darker, I think it speaks to some of the harsh realities that people are facing across America today. This show could be more than just a nostalgic feel-good moment for the fans.</p><p>The '90s were a great time to be alive in general, but "Fresh Prince" was definitely one of the upsides to the decade... like a huge upside. Considering how 2020 has started, this may be the turnaround we need. </p><p>Oh, and PS: <a href="https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/saved-by-bell-watch-a-teaser-peacocks-sequel-1306684" target="_blank">"Saved By The Bell" also just announced a reboot</a>. Double win for '90s kids.</p>
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10 Brilliant Ideas That Every Gym Needs To Implement, Like Yesterday
How does the saying go, a little inGYMnuity never hurt nobody?
12 August
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Maybe it was the quarantine months that sent you on a quest to finally find a workout routine that works for you, or maybe it was the lack of routine in the world that inspired you to change your habits or -for some- keep them and make an effort to maintain your health. If gyms were not already evolving with the new needs of the 21st-century gymgoer, they are undoubtedly evolving now with the lifestyle mindset that Covid-19 has left many of us with — a desire for a plan for a positive change seeing that tomorrow is not guaranteed.
The experience that an individual gets out of going to the gym should feel worth their time, energy, and should meet their specific fitness journey goals. If you do not already have a reason to go to the gym, here are ten genius effective implementations that will inspire even the couch-iest potato.
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<p>Yes, there are third-party fitness apps out of the wazoo available to download, but it would be smart for gyms to launch their own user-friendly app that syncs with other gyms alike with simple logging features that can be used not only for in the gym but outside as well. These features would include equipment connected technology that would analyze your digital gym behavior and establish and store "presets" for future use.</p>
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2. "Isolation" pods where you can experience the gym environment while reducing the threat of COVID-19.
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<p>Social distancing is in full swing at Inspire South Bay Gym in Southern California as pictured above. Luckily, working out is more often an individual practice, so being blocked off from others' space is actually a relief to many. With concerns of the Corona Virus spreading in places common for congregating, these plastic pods are what you might soon expect to be implemented in a gym around you especially since the use of a face covering is up to the exerciser in most places.</p>
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3. Musically synced treadmills
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<p>Picture this — "We're Not Gonna Take It" by Twisted Sister is synced to your heart rate of 150 bpm, giving you a personalized treadmill experience. Gyms should add some flavor to the mundane treadmill run by having queued music for the speed chosen or music that syncs with your heart rate that treadmills already tend to monitor and display.</p>
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<p>A space with counters before you enter the gym where you can throw together your pre-workout supplement, or come after you workout and put together your post-workout meal. Essentially a positive, open-concept space where exercisers can get the nutrition they need in a space that fosters the ability to do so.</p>
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<p>Most gyms have a centralized weight lifting area where they have the various equipment accessible for use of all types, but some gymgoers are there to target a specific skill either in preparation for a competition or just to strengthen a weak spot. By offering a few side rooms tailored just for sleds, running, or cool down conditioning, gyms would be providing their clients with more options that would likely keep client retention at an all-time high.</p>
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6. A little popup shop for those who forget earbuds and water bottles
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<p>A little corner glass "shop" with gym staples from protein powder, headbands, and workout apparel to reusable water bottles, and simple equipment such as resistance bands and dumbbells would be attractive to any exerciser in any target market. Convenience is everything, and gyms have the prime opportunity to take a chance on providing more than a workout experience, they have an opportunity to provide what it takes to have a successful one. </p>
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7. Collaborative workout rooms
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<p>A minor contradiction to the topic of stopping the spread of Covid-19, but gyms could offer a separate conference-type glass room made for 2-3 people which is optimal working out with your gym buddy.</p>
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8. Interactive, built-in iPads on the walls
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<p>Gyms must not forget about visual learners. It would be like online ordering at a McDonald's kiosk, but make it gym style. You could select the type of workout plan you want to follow, or customize one for yourself, and from there follow step-by-step instructions all the way to the end.</p>
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9. A Planet Fitness lunk-esque alarm
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<p>We've all seen the commercials of an intimated gymgoer sounding the alarm on a "gym lunk" in their midst. This concept is a great idea, but you should be able to do this in anonymity through your mobile device, or certain discrete locations throughout the gym if an individual feels threatened or suspicious of any activity at any time. A gym worker at the front would then be notified and can make their way out on the floor to be a deterrence or a positive interference for inappropriate behavior.</p>
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10. Natural lighting and calming views
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<p>The desire to be active is much more easily achieved if one has a good view. Windows overlooking your city, trees, streets, or a scenic view in general is a curb appeal for many who are tired of "staying in the zone" while looking at a white wall. A feeling of Vitamin D and a change of scenery from home is a motivation that should be accessible to harness an effective gym environment.</p>
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10 Curvy Women Of Color On Instagram Who Inspired Us All To Take More Confident Lingerie Selfies
Learn to embrace your body and stop comparing yourself to the "beauty" standard with the help of these beautiful models and bloggers.
12 August
It's not every day that you scroll on your timeline and see a body that resembles your own. With a beauty standard that has conditioned the minds of society to exclaim confidence!
When a fuller figure posts on social media — as if it's an extreme act of bravery to show yourself off if you're not under a size 6 — it's about time we take back our power and learn that we are enough just the way we are.
<p>A wonderful way to start this journey is by swapping out your Instagram following for people that embody everything you're working for. No more feeling insecure for having thighs that jiggle and stretch marks on your hips. </p><p>These are the people you want to see on your timeline:</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bn4YQILlvxO/" target="_blank">
Latecia Thomas
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/lateciat" target="_blank">@lateciat</a></p></small>
<p>She serves us face, walk, and body while speaking loud and proud for equality.</p>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CALbNr1hsPA/" target="_blank">
Denise Mercedes
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<img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzUxMjQyNS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYyMjA5MzY4MH0.2SOoq-kqyW4Wh4e-mbTdwUq8JHssy6bc2dEhRtOQcGY/img.png?width=980" id="ccd53" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="623f67ea34ba534a1c6c5fbf93e6999e" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image">
<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/denisemmercedes" target="_blank">@DenisemMercedes</a></p></small>
<p>Founder of two uplifting hashtags: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/becauseitsmybody/" target="_blank">#becauseitsmybody</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/stylenotsize/" target="_blank">#stylenotsize</a></p>
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Diana Sirokai
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/dianasirokai" target="_blank">@Dianasirokai</a></p></small>
<p>It's written in bold in her bio: <strong>CONFIDENCE </strong>with Diana.<br></p><p>Tired of being criticized for being plus-sized and not fitting society's beauty standards, Diana took to instagram to build a platform that challenges every pre-conceived idea of beauty and celebrates all bodies.</p>
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Jessica Torres
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/thisisjessicatorres" target="_blank">@thisisjessicatorres</a></p></small>
<p>Not only is she a style icon, Jessica also has a <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/1D6oXF78jzGO7P0bW6PUmX?si=hyZlGCkKTG-HT8mrvITgww" target="_blank">Podcast</a> and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/ThisIsJessicaTorres" target="_blank">YouTube</a> channel where her electric aura shines through the screen spreading love, light, and the knowledge that you are that bitch!</p>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CBbJDKOgiHK/" target="_blank">
Kelly Augustine
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<img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzUxMjQyOS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYwOTk5NDk5M30.g73X38j1Ir4MTrbt4dl7j7UB0hOz9H2grtwuuQnzQ14/img.png?width=980" id="1d280" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="c2cac54383b9730646a362fe0b37e7f2" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image">
<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/kellyaugustineb" target="_blank">@kellyaugustineb</a></p></small>
<p>From natural hair looks to healthy eats, Kelly rocks it all!</p>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CAYV5KxFaJ3/" target="_blank">
Gabi
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/gabifresh" target="_blank">@GabiFresh</a></p></small>
<p>Gabi is here to teach you to love the skin you’re in! She is the bikini and lingerie queen.</p>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CCq7i8XAcvr/" target="_blank">
Veronica Campos
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</h2>
<img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzUxMjQzNy9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYxMTI5MDczMH0.EeH0PAxrXQbBNuKDNd6b4MvozmLLVFfgCbF-3IaM_HI/img.png?width=980" id="24fda" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="4f3fcde69260ab45e230e76ac5105c6c" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image">
<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/veroocampos" target="_blank">@Veroocampos</a></p></small>
<p>There's not a color in this world that won't look absolutely stunning on this woman.</p>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CBlybxKgYxC/" target="_blank">
Ireanna
</a>
</h2>
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/mynamesireanna" target="_blank">@MynamesIreanna</a></p></small>
<p>She loves the skin she's in and she's not afraid to show it.</p>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CC9OqPIDrtU/" target="_blank">
Erika Aguilera
</a>
</h2>
<img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzUxMjQ0OC9vcmlnaW4uanBnIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY0OTc3NDM5NH0.uuU9moemipKR6Bby-FbIb157QirSFBre1ZLLP9Qf0t8/img.jpg?width=980" id="1b90a" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="b742f9f299aee9d2ff9fdba178414e22" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image">
<small class="image-media media-photo-credit"><p><a href="http://instagram.com/erikaaguileraa" target="_blank">@erikaaguileraa</a></p></small>
<p>This beauty is living her best life with her best friend by her side!</p>
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<a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CCMbXxPArPv/" target="_blank">
Lenix T rena'e
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5 Characters From Your Childhood That Combated The Mental Health Stigma
We deserve to see people like us on the big screen just as much as you do.
12 August
Perks of Being a Wallflower
Growing up with a neurodevelopment disorder and mental illness, it's easy to feel isolated from the rest of the world. It is not common to look around and see someone that experiences situations similar to the ones you endure. Even if you do come across a person that is also perceived to be "different" in the eyes of society, the negative connotations instilled in everyday life are quick to silence your voice and knock you down before you have a chance to realize that who you are is more than okay--it's normal. This is a big reason why anything that brings understanding and shines a light on what people with neurodevelopment disorders and mental illness go through on a regular basis comes around a sense of relief and happiness fills the body.
In light of this, I went on a hunt to find characters in television and cinema that accurately portray the complexities of developmental disorders and mental health.
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1. PTSD: Charlie Kelmeckis, "Perks of Being a Wallflower"
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<p>Throughout the story, Charlie avoids situations in which he has to discuss the trauma he endured as a child or be around anything that may bring on a memory of it. He suffers heavily from the inability to remember aspects of his trauma and leans heavily on negative beliefs about himself related to his aunt's death as well as feelings of detachment from others. For example, Charlie witnesses a physically abusive altercation between his older sister and her boyfriend which causes him to have a flashback, or what some may better describe as a dissociation, of times he spent with his Aunt Helen, his abuser. Lastly, Charlie experiences outbursts of anger, irritability, and difficulty with concentration amongst other arousal and reactivity symptoms. Charlie also experiments with a variety of drugs throughout the story. In the end, Charlie receives psychotherapy to help him gain control and finally process the devastating moments in his life. <br></p><p>The <a href="https://cpnp.org/perspective/2014/03/195128" target="_blank">College of Psychiatric and Neurologic Pharmacists</a> states, "Overall, "Perks of Being a Wallflower" accurately portrays the symptoms of <a href="https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/ptsd/what-is-ptsd" target="_blank">PTSD</a> in an adolescent who experienced the trauma of sexual abuse as a child. It also provides a positive image of psychiatry and a psychiatric hospital which is rare in Hollywood. Films providing this kind of insight into psychiatric conditions help eliminate the stigmas we still see today. Overall, the movie was well done and touching."</p>
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2. Depression: "BoJack Horseman"
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<p>"BoJack Horseman" is arguably one of the best depictions of mental illness in the media today. Instead of sticking to textbook definitions and focusing in on one small aspect of a disorder an exploiting it, "BoJack Horseman" dives into what mental illness is like on a personal level, behind closed doors, and at varying levels of intensity. <br></p><p>"BoJack" also takes viewers further into the inner landscape of <a href="https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression" target="_blank">depression</a> than any other show, never shying away from depicting what it's like to have a disease that convinces you that <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVFROLk7ZBU" target="_blank">you are poison</a>, that the world is worse off with you in it. "BoJack Horseman" excels most in moments like this, where it examines elements of depression known only by those who suffer from it. </p><p><a href="https://wpubeacon.com/4809/opinions/what-bojack-horseman-gets-right-about-mental-illness/" target="_blank">The Beacon</a><i> </i>writes<i>, </i>"Bojack" raises the bar for how media should depict mental illness as there is something for anyone to relate<i> </i>to in the wide variety of characters in the show. "BJjack" does not tackle mental illness through stereotypes and shock value because viewers have seen enough of that and television doesn't need more of it. Instead, the raw view inside each character shows how complex mental illness is, and how we are not alone in our suffering even if we tell ourselves we are."<br></p>
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3. Aspergers: Max Braverman, "Parenthood"
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<p>"Parenthood" takes to the frontlines to be one of the first shows on television to dive into the social isolation, family life, stigma, and other complexities that come with someone on the autism spectrum. Viewers are given the chance to see Max from a very young age receive his diagnosis and watch as he grows into a young man and gain an understanding of who he is and how <a href="https://www.autismspeaks.org/types-autism-what-asperger-syndrome" target="_blank">Aspergers</a> plays a role in that. Throughout the series, Max deals with difficulty socializing which makes things difficult at home and brings on unwanted, negative attention at school. With Max's family all being very close, different looks into social interactions, and how someone with Aspergers may or may not pick up on certain cues are also shown on multiple occasions. The show in no way depicts Aspergers to not come with its challenges, frustration, breakdowns, and many arguments that occur in the series. However, one of the things I like most about Max's portrayal is that it always includes the positives that come with Aspergers. <br></p><p>Writer Jason Katim draws inspiration from his son who has Aspergers Syndrome to create the character we know as Max. Katim along with the other writers research and works diligently to give an authentic representation for the world to see and connect to.</p><p><a href="https://u.osu.edu/kovacevich.9/parenthood-an-authentic-look-into-aspergers/" target="_blank">An analysis</a> of the show proclaims, ""Parenthood" does an amazing job in developing Max not only in overcoming aspects of his diagnosis but, as a person. He discovers his passions, makes friends, and falls in love. He has the same experiences as the rest of us and Parenthood does a wonderful job of showcasing that. The authentic way in which Max Braverman is characterized by "Parenthood" helps to raise awareness for Autism."</p>
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4. Anorexia: Ellen, "To The Bone"
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<p>Ellen is introduced at 20 years old. By this time she has been to at least five inpatient treatment centers for <a href="https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/eating-disorders/what-are-eating-disorders" target="_blank">her eating disorder</a>. In one scene Ellen plays a game with her younger sister where she is challenged to identify the correct calorie count of multiple foods. Ellen has never given a wrong answer. Calorie counting as well as self-induced vomiting, over-exercising, bingeing, chewing and spitting, loss of menses, calorie counting, fear of gaining weight, and food restriction are all shown throughout the movie. In multiple scenes, Ellen is found on the floor of her bedroom doing sit-ups which are later revealed to be the cause of major bruising to her back and ribs. <br></p><p>Once placed in a residential group for people with eating disorders, "To The Bone" begins to show some diversity by including people of various sizes suffering from Anorexia, Bulimia, as well as Binge Eating Disorder. The group members' amount of say in their treatment is not common in reality, the basic building blocks are there. The patients are monitored by a physician, psychologist, dietician, nutritionist, and a home advisor.</p><p>As far as building relationships go, Ellen and her housemates are able to build a nice family dynamic and support system. This is typically harder to do in the real world. </p><p>While everything displayed in this film does not check all the boxes for all people, it does portray eating disorders well enough for someone to be able to see themselves in the characters. If your child has an active eating disorder, ask if they feel "To The Bone" accurately represents their experience and if they were affected by any parts of the movie. Discuss how this is one person's story and talk about how other stories might look different. </p><p><a href="https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2017/08/to-the-bone-and-eating-disorder-treatment-did-netflix-get-it-right" target="_blank">Nationwide Children's</a><i> </i>sends the following reminder:<i> </i></p><p><u>"To The Bone" raises awareness of eating disorders and demonstrates the resistance to treatment one might experience. Eating disorders result in serious consequences if left untreated. If your child or someone you know is struggling with one, please reach out for help or encourage them to do so.</u></p>
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5. Borderline Personality Disorder: Rebecca Bunch, "Crazy Ex-Girlfriend"
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<p>The dive into mental health in this series begins with Rebecca having flashbacks of her upbringing where it is unveiled that she has spent some time in a psychiatric clinic. From there we follow along as she bounces on and off different medications as well as in and out of therapy. Eventually, Rebecca's struggles with her mental health and anxiety reach a point that drives her to attempt an irreversible act.<br></p><p>As heavy as that may sound, the show is still a musical comedy. Which is another reason why the depiction of mental health is so admirable. Even with everything, Rebecca is dealing with we still get to see the funny, talented, witty side to her. Instead of a one-dimensional "crazy" person whose entire identity is the stereotypical and negative sides of depression, Rebecca Bunch shows the multiple levels to the disorder. She also takes us on a true venture through therapy. While the media usually shows one or two half sessions and then the character is "cured," Rebecca shows that therapy is a process with its own set of ups and downs to work through. </p><p>When it comes to her attempt, we see everything that led up to it. We see her mounting stress and all-consuming mental health issues come to the forefront. We see her instantly regret her decision, we also see her guilt in the aftermath and her asking for, and getting, help-all in detail. These are all things that are not normally elaborated on. </p><p>One of the bigger moments in the show is Rebecca's diagnosis. <a href="https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-disorders/borderline-personality-disorder.htm" target="_blank">Borderline Personality Disorder</a> is a heavily stigmatized mental illness. People with this disorder are categorized as manipulative, unlikeable, attention-seeking, without the ability to love romantically and/or platonically, amongst other things. The effects of this stigma can be seen when Rebecca falls into despair after researching her new diagnosis. The series is quick to debunk the stigma as the show goes on. The tough reality for Rebecca and many living with mental illness or any other illness, whether it be a developmental disorder or disease that affects your life: you can't pick and choose how your mind and body experience it and recovery takes time and effort.</p><p>Rebecca Bunch's accurately portrayed journey through the battle to live every day with the symptoms of mental illness, getting professional help, the privilege of being diagnosed and actively working to understand and manage one's mental illness is something you don't come across regularly in the media, but it definitely should be.</p>
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