I just hit my three year anniversary. It’s time to celebrate and pop open a bottle of champagne! Let's bring on the red roses and Hallmark card.

I’ve officially hit year three of flying solo.

I’ve dated in recent years, yes, but there’s been no Mr. Right to jump into a relationship with. Before that I led the typically American girl life. I was head over heels with my high school love and connected to my college boyfriend's hip. I learned so much about myself in each situation, but there wasn't one that was the game changer.

The past few years it’s been only me. Let me tell you what, I’ve had so much self-growth during this time. Yes, I learned about myself when paired with another. And you know what? I’ve taken away just as much in the past few years being single. Here's how:

1. I get to spend time with my other fabulous friends.

The cool thing about flying solo is the extra time to binge on Netflix shows and go to barre classes with your lady friends. I am talking those moments you’re sitting across the table from a great friend with wine, sweet potato fries, and real talk. Those times come with the most honest conversation that every girl needs.

2. I get to really figure out what I want in a partner. Plus I get to go on some pretty fun dinner dates.

The excitement that accompanies a first date is one of my favorite feelings. I love to sit across from a new face and learn more about them and their life experiences. I’ve been on plenty of first dates that did not lead to a second date. Yes, those dinners and drinks were a good time. But it was clear to the both of us (or sometimes one of us, and that's okay!) that the spark wasn’t there. Each date, no matter how it goes, helps me learn more about what I need in a partner. Sometimes I walk away and think "wow, I had no idea that I need x, y, and z in my person". I can't think of a more empowering feeling.

3. I get to spend lots of time with my favorite person. Myself.

I love the energy of people, but also need time for just me to recharge. After an evening at a spinning class with a friend or dinner with a date I need a night for me. I cherish those times where I am left alone with my own thoughts to relax and reflect. Those are the moments the clicks happen and I grow into a better version of myself. I know someday this time will be limited, so you better believe I will enjoy every episode of Gilmore Girls on my couch.

I cannot wait to meet my person. But while I am on the search for him, you better believe I am going to love every minute of the single life. The time spent with my fabulous friends, interesting dates, and myself helps me grow into the I was always meant to be.