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21 Life Lessons I Learned By Age 21

Growing up is hard, here's a few things I wish I learned earlier.

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21 Life Lessons I Learned By Age 21
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Growing up can be bittersweet. Setting most of your childlike habits aside and staring the future straight in the face can be intimidating. Luckily, the knowledge and experience accumulated with age can make you feel more comfortable with the transition to adulthood. Here are 21 life lessons I think everyone should learn by age 21.

1. Life isn't fair.

2. Don't take your family for granted.

3. Sometimes people will try to tear you down..build yourself back up.

4. Life is about balance (try to find one!)

5. It's good to set goals but it's also nice to enjoy the journey instead of focusing on the destination.

6. Romantic love isn't everything. Platonic love can be just as fulfilling.

7. Comparing yourselves to others is pointless.

8. Honesty is the best policy.

9. Work hard, play hard.

10. Doing what you love is more important than making money. If you make enough money to reasonably support yourself, then don't worry about becoming the next Steve Jobs.

11. Put yourself out there. Rejection and failure hurt but never knowing and constantly wondering "what if..." is even worse.

12. Travel. Broaden your horizons. Do not remain culturally indifferent simply because you feel it "does not effect you."

13. Winning isn't everything. It's about the learning experience.

14. Don't let the beauty of the world go uncaptured.

15. Forgive yourself and others. We all make mistakes.


16. Everyone fails sometimes. Don't let it hinder your growth.

17. Breathe more, panic less.

18. Everything happens for a reason.

19. There may be times where you think you won't make it..but you will.

20. Don't take everything at face value and try not to judge based on first impressions.

21. Carpe diem.

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