It's always fun when people ask me how long my boyfriend and I have been together. Obviously, I'm proud to say that we've been together for eight years (since the end of seventh grade), but also hesitant because people always freak out when I say that.
I know that it's uncommon that people our age have been together for that long, but, honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way.
I love that my boyfriend knows every single thing about me and vice versa. We've literally grown up together.
He's been there for me to celebrate birthdays, getting into college, senior nights, new jobs, everything. He's my shoulder to cry on during times of loss and sadness. He's the best listening ear when I'm dealing with crazy drama or just want to talk.
And, most of all, he has put up with all of my moods and all of my silliness for eight years.
Having someone who has known you since middle school and has watched you grow up and face the challenges of life is the best thing.
Sometimes people ask me if we will get married, when we will get married or why we're not engaged.
The answer to all of those questions is really simple. Yes, one day he and I will get married. He's the one. However, I don't know when we will get engaged or married.
Both of us are in school and want to have our education finished and careers started before marriage. Obviously we aren't rushing things — I mean it has been eight years!
Just because we have been together for so long and aren't engaged or married isn't a bad thing. I mean, we started dating when we were 12! We have been growing together since then, and honestly I don't need a ring right now to know that he loves me.
My boyfriend is my very best friend. I know I can talk to him about anything and be free of judgment and that he will always listen and love me no matter what.
And, after being together for eight years, I still try and be more like him each day. He is so calm and hardly ever gets mad or upset. Let's just say I'm the exact opposite. I learn so much from him and the way he treats other people with kindness and love.
Long story short, I am so proud of myself and my boyfriend for making it this far together, and I cannot wait to see where the future takes us.
I love you!
