1. Drinking coffee four times a day is overkill.

2. I’ll buy you tofu and soy milk if you choose to go vegan.

3. Don’t date someone who says he/she goes to Hooters.

4. I’ll tell you when you’re wrong but will always be on your team.

5. Don’t go on a date with someone who doesn’t ring the doorbell.

6. Be passionate about something. Whatever that something is.

7. Learn how to perfect winged eyeliner.

8. Like what you like. Whether that’s makeup, football, or both.

9. Listen to music with lyrics that move you.

10. Don’t listen to misogynistic songs. Or people, for that matter

11. Wear silly Halloween costumes.

12. Own a nice pair of nude heels.

13. Own a red lipstick that suits you.

14. There’s a difference between being humble and being insecure. Learn that difference.

15. Dance to the Beyoncé of your generation with your girls.

16. Hydrate.

17. Feel things in the moment

18. Join a lot of clubs in high school and college.

19. Call me when you need me, ever. Regardless of what it is.

20. Put down your phone and take it in.

21. Call me at 3 am when a boy hurt you and you need to talk.

22. Work. Be proud of yourself.

23. Study. You will love being able to have passions, thoughts, perceptions, and intelligent conversations.

24. Learn your limits. With friends, with what you can handle, and with alcohol.

25. Binge on popcorn and talk about love with your friends.

26. Appreciate them.

27. Don’t be a doormat. For anyone.

28. Feel for other people. Always stay empathetic.

29. Discover politics. Always be open to changing your mind.

30. Don’t ever settle. Life is too short.