After almost a year spent away from home in the damp, drab walls of a college dorm, moving back home for the three months of summer break was a little bit of a culture shock. With the summer drawing to a close, here are the ups—and downs—you probably experienced as you re-adjusted to living with your family.

1. Hugging your parents extra hard because it’s been so long since you’ve seen them.

2. Basking in the glory of having your own room (or feeling perfectly comfortable screaming at your sister for not cleaning if you still share).

3. Crying tears of joy when you take your first at-home shower in a normal-sized, individual bathroom with great water pressure and no shower shoes.

4. Having your first fight with one of your siblings—and feeling oddly comforted by the fact that nothing has changed between you.

5. Falling back into your routine of constantly bickering with your siblings, and kind of cherishing it because you miss them—although you won’t often admit it—when you’re away at school.

6. Being annoyed about having to tell your parents where you’re going and who you’re with every time you go out—and then smiling when you remember it’s because they care about you so much (but mostly just being annoyed).

7. Getting even more annoyed if your parents give you a curfew—um guys, I can drive a car and vote, can’t you just let me be?!

8. Feeling nostalgic when you reunite with your high school friends and trade stories about your lives now.

9. Missing your college friends when you want to go talk to them and then remember they don’t live down the hall anymore.

10. Getting super excited for dinner now that your dining options are home-cooked instead of being confined to Sadler or the caf.

11. Realizing how much better your lunch tastes when your mom makes it.

12. Yet, still going through Wawa withdrawal when you’re craving some mac and cheese and your favorite convenience store isn’t a five-minute walk from your house.

13. Smiling as you cruise around town in your parents’ car instead of walking around everywhere.

14. Feeling excited but also slightly weirded out when you can drive to a store and try clothes on instead of ordering online and taking a guess at your size.

15. Loving the fact that mail comes straight to you instead of having to walk to the post office to pick it up, because now you don't have to get dressed and go outside.

16. But missing your package receipt notification emails from the post office when you just have to sit around all day and wait for whatever you ordered to arrive at your front door.

17. Loving the feeling of relaxation that comes with no classes or homework, but quickly realizing that void is filled with the newfound stress of your summer job or internship.

18. Craving being back at school with all of your freedoms and friends.

19. And missing home already when you think about leaving.