When we are young, we really don't know much. We are easily impressionable, and this leads us to do things we would later look back and frown at. The good part about this process is that you eventually do come to your senses about life, relationships, and who you are as an individual. That being said here are some things I wish I knew when I was younger.

1. It's better to be independent than it is to be dependent

2. They mistreat you now but they'll need you later — don't go back

3. You have to love yourself more than you love them

4. Everyone isn't out to get you

5. Never be ashamed of yourself

6. The losers have more fun than the cool kids

7. Don't pretend to be someone you're not

8. Don't pretend to be dumb just because you've been told that's how girls should be

9. Sometimes the best response is no response

10. Toxic relationships will only hold you back

11. Don't compromise any aspect of yourself just to have friends

12. Fake friends will only leave you empty

13. Your grades are more important than a boy

14. You're not a sex object — don't let them treat you like one

15. Pain is temporary, you won't be sad forever