In our generation, meeting a great man seems to be a lost hope. A real gentleman is extremely rare, because they're all f*** boys. They don't respect women, what so ever. It's all about hooking up, and leaving us, when the next best thing comes along. Our insecurities begin exactly at the moment they leave us. What did we do wrong? How could we have gotten them to stay? It's exhausting! Always wondering why it's our fault. But, maybe it's not our fault. Maybe it's theirs, and they're just f*** boys. Most every girl has had to come across one in her life. In our society, it is impossible not to.

Wondering what f*** boys really is? Here're 15 reasons describing how a f*** boy acts.

1. "He texts you at 2 a.m. to come over"

In a very good How I Met Your Mother episode, it's been said that nothing good happens after 2 a.m. and it's true. Really, you want me to come over to your house at that time, just to "hang out" ? No, I see you. I'm not a booty call. Maybe if it was earlier in the night say around 7 or even 10/11, but not 2 a.m... I deserve better.

2. "The first thing he says when he meets you is, you're sexy or hot."

I'm sorry, but that's just awkward! What am I going to say back? Um, thanks..... It's one thing for your to say it behind my back, and have it get back to me. Then I'd be like oh he might have a crush on me! But the first thing? Just, no. I'd walk away...

3. "He asks to hang out 10 minutes after meeting you."

Get to know me a little first, before you ask me to hang! Some girls might be like yeah, sure. But, I'm the type, where I'd be like um, I don't know you. Let's talk for a little while!

4. "He refuses to hang out in public."

I was once talking to a guy who I had never met before. He kept wanting to hang out, but ONLY at his house. I asked if we could meet in public first, and he refused over and over again. It's like he was trying to hide me or just hook up. Another guy I was talking to that I knew, never wanted to bring me out in public, it's like he was embarrassed by me! It made feel so insecure. Every girl deserves a man who'll bring her out in public, even as just a friend. If you don't, you're an asshole.

5. "He refuses to follow you on social media."

I've talked to guys for long periods of time who won't follow me on social media. And I'm just like really? We talk every day, all day, why won't you follow me? It's annoying. Sometimes I have guys who will, but won't acknowledge me at all. They say happy birthday to everyone else on Twitter, but they text it to me.... Thanks. Or I'll tag them in something that gets ignored. Cool. It's not like we're talking or anything.! Maybe I'm being a brat here, but oh well....

6. "He refuses to introduce you to his friends or tell them about you."

That one is just self-explanatory and bad if he doesn't do it. I know I'm a girl, but I ALWAYS tell my friends when I'm talking to a new guy. Whether it's serious or not, I think us girls deserve to be acknowledged or introduced. I'm not asking to meet your parents for Pete's sake. But if we're hanging out quite a bit, I wanna meet your friends, the people who know you best. I've had many times when I do meet a friend of a guy I'm talking to randomly; and I'm like yeah, I'm talking to your friend! And they're like really? I thought he was talking to so and so. Awkward. If you're trying to hide me, try harder, or not at all. I don't need that.

7. "Personal questions are yes or no, or no answer at all."

Hello! I'm trying to get to know you. If ask you a question, I want more than a yes or no. I understand certain subjects are hard to talk about, but I'm taking a chance to get to know you. At least try, if you don't want to, the. stop talking to me, or asking to hook up with me. Be real with me and get to know me.

8. "They won't contact you for months, then ask to hookup..."

Yeah, no. I'm not a hookup buddy you can just call when you need sex. Maybe other girls are like that, but not me. Ask me how I'm doing, life questions, etc...

9. "They won't say hi to you in public."

You're not gonna say hi to me at Subway, but last night you were calling me to get laid? Are you that mad that I turned you down? Hmm... I wonder why I did it! You can't even acknowledge my presence.

10. "He brings up other girls around you."

If we have a thing or you know I like you, do not bring up girls you think are hot or wanna bang. Let alone tell me you wanna bang them. That's disrespectful despite your feelings towards me.

11. "He says you're the only girl he's talking to, but then goes for your best friend."

Why even try? Girls talk, she's my best friend, she knows everything about me, and we tell each other everything. Nice try.

12. "When we fall in love with a f*** boy, he'll manipulate you to do everything for them."

I'm the type of girl who will go above and beyond for a guy I like. I can easily be talked into buying a guy anything or doing anything for him, to make him happy. Even if he's friend zoning me hardcore, I'll still do it. That's mostly my fault, but don't take advantage of how I feel for you, for your own benefit.

13. "He makes you feel crazy for caring"

Alright, now we're talking more of the relationship part with f*** boys. And how they make us feel stupid for caring. Am I crazy to ask how your mom is? That I'm sorry your Grandma died? Whether we're together or not, I'm showing I care. I'm here for you. Don't make me question why I am, when all my friends hate that I'm there for you. I'm just trying to be a good person.

14. "They'll make you fall in love."

Sadly despite everything I've said that f*** boys do, we fall in love with them! Somehow, some way, we do. We'll pour our hearts out to them and then they walk away. Because they're not ready to be with just us, or to be committed. All that time and effort is for nothing.....and we feel like an idiot.

15. "Then when you're over them and moving on; they come back."

You're moving on and getting better. Life is not perfect, but you're happy! And then, he comes back, and decides he wants to try. It's like you just stopped thinking about him, but here he is.... WTF.

I'm not saying all guys are f*** boys, but in my experience, most of them are. And I'm sure most guys will think I'm a bitch after reading this, but oh well. I know how I should be treated, and it's nothing like the reasons I listed. Every girl should be feel adored, safe, loved, and so much more when they wanna be with a guy. They shouldn't be with a f*** boy. Be with a real man who respects you. Someone who plays with your hair and not your heart.