For the first time in 18 years I won't be returning to school. No picking my "unassigned-assigned" seat, no complaining about book prices, and no back to school parties during the first few days also known as syllabus week. I have finally been kicked off of the merry-go-round that is college and my head is spinning. Reaching the end has forced me to reflect on the bundle of nerves that went in and the bundle of nerves with degrees that came out. I asked a few friends and these are the words of wisdom they wished to impart upon their younger selves.
1. "Go to everything free."
Whether they're handing out t-shirts or playing a concert, soak up anything and everything that your school offers for free.
2. "Don't carry everything in your backpack."
Your back will thank you later.
3. "Soak up the resources."
College is a one stop shop for interview tips, resume reviews, career advice and much more. Take advantage of these resources that will never again be under one figurative roof.
4. "Get Involved."
Be like a kid in a candy shop when it comes to clubs. Whether you stick to them or not, it's a great way to branch out and pursue your interests.
5. "Choose relationships wisely."
Learn how to identify and rid yourself of toxic relationships. Whether friends or significant others, don't keep negativity around. Don't let anyone get in the way of the real reason you're there.
6. "The freshmen 15 is real."
Just because it's all you can eat. Doesn't mean you should eat all you can eat.
7. "Figure out finances."
Before you graduate figure out all those pesky real life things about finances that high school missed, like interest, mortgage and what a 401k is.
8. "Pick your major wisely."
Do what you're interested in and not what you think sounds good. Don't be afraid to start over if it means doing what you love.
9. "Time management is key."
This may be the first time in your life you haven't been micromanaged by your parents or your teachers. No one is going to tell you when to do your homework, study, or go to bed. Learn how to manage your time.
10. "Get a job or internship related to your major."
Most college kids need fast cash and a flexible work schedule, so there's nothing wrong with picking up a pizza gig or working in retail, but when college is over you'll want to be able to tell your future employer that you can do something besides deliver five pizza pies in under 30 minutes.
11. "Show Up."
Sounds simple enough, but at 8 a.m. it is often easier said than done.
12. "Be safe when social."
Drink responsibly isn't just something they say at the end of beer commercials.
13. "Enjoy yourself."
College can and should be taken seriously, but don't let the anxiety of tomorrow rob you of the fun to be had today. As cliché as it sounds, these are the best years of your life and you'll never get them back.
