There are hundreds of colleges across the country, and each one is different from the next. However, there are a bunch of situations/feelings that all college students have definitely experienced, no matter what school they go to. So, without further ado here is a list of things that all college students can relate to: as told by your favorite MacLaren's regulars.
10. Those days when you leave philosophy feeling a little too inspired
“I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul.” - William Ernest Henley
Since we were little girls we have been asked, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” We responded with astronauts, teachers, presidents, nurses, etc. Then we start growing up, and our plans change.
In middle school, our plans were molded based on our friends and whatever was cool at the time. Eventually, we went to high school and this question became serious, along with some others: “What are your plans for college?” “What are you going to major in?” “When do you think you’ll get married?” “Are you going to stay friends with your friends?” We are bombarded with these questions we are supposed to have answers to, so we start making plans.
Plans, like going to college with our best friends and getting a degree we’ve been dreaming about. Plans, to get married as soon as we can. We make plans for how to lose weight and get healthy. We make plans for our weddings and children.
We fill our Pinterest boards with these dreams and hopes that we have, which are really great things to do, but what happens when you don’t get into that college? What happens when your best friend chooses to go somewhere else? Or, what if you don’t get the scholarship you need or the awards you thought you deserved. Maybe, the guy you thought you would marry breaks your heart. You might gain a few pounds instead of losing them. Your parents get divorced. Someone you love gets cancer. You don’t get the grades you need. You don’t make that collegiate sports team. The sorority you’re a legacy to, drops you. You didn’t get the job or internship you applied for. What happens to you when this plan doesn’t go your way?
I’ve been there.
The answer for that is “I have this hope that is an anchor for my soul.” Soon we all realize we are not the captain of our fate. We don’t have everything under control nor will we ever have control of every situation in our lives. But, there is someone who is working all things together for the good of those who love him, who has a plan and a purpose for the lives of his children. His name is Jesus. When life takes a turn you aren’t expecting, those are the times you have to cling to Him the tightest, trusting that His plan is what is best. That is easier said than done, but keep pursuing Him. I have found in my life that His plans were always better than mine, and slowly He’s revealing that to me.
The end of your plan isn’t the end of your life. There is more out there. You may not be the captain of your fate, but you can be the master of your soul. You can choose to be happy despite your circumstances. You can change directions at any point and go a different way. You can take the bad and make something beautiful out of it, if you allow God to work in your heart.
So, make the best of that school you did get in to. Own it. Make new friends- you may find they are better than the old ones. Apply for more scholarships, or get a job. Move on from the guy that broke your heart; he does not deserve you. God has a guy lined up for you who will love you completely. Spend all the time you can with the loved one with cancer. Pray, pray hard for healing. Study more. Apply for more jobs, or try to spend your summer serving others instead. Join a different club or get involved in other organizations on campus. Find your delight first in God and then pursue other activities that make you happy; He will give you the desires of your heart.
My friend, it is going to be OK.
And I'm lost again….
But why are there never paper towels in the community bathroom?
Can you have a mid-life crisis at 18?
Drunk people. Lots and lots of drunk people.
Empty rooms...wait, people are already dropping out???
Face breaking out. Is it from all the dessert or the stress?
Golf, school, and clubs, do I really have time for it all?
How am I supposed to get down from this bed without hurting myself?
I don't know anyone here.
Just forget about quiet hours, they apparently don't exist.
Kainotophobia-fear of change.
Late nights...doing homework...totally not watching a movie.
Making sure you have snacks for every occasion and mood.
Naps. All the naps.
Oh sh-! I have class in 5 minutes!
Please let there be good food for lunch.
Questioning whether I should drop out and work at McDonalds for the rest of my life.
Required activities until 11pm during Week of Welcome?! Why can't I just go to bed????
So much debt. Lots and lots of debt...
This class is killing my soul...and it's only the second day.
Um, did you say free????
Very loud people next door.
What is sleep?
Xtra sketchy washing machines. Why must they flood every use?
You best believe I'm procrastinating homework for Netflix.
Zipping across campus because you only have 10 minutes between classes.