Relationships can end poorly, and in many different ways. In this social experiment I created an anonymous google form and encouraged every and all of girls I knew to fill it out. Every response in this article is an actual response from a girl, NONE OF THESE ARE MADE UP. It is not a secret that when you break up with someone, there are just some things you wish the other person knew. Here are 60 girls’ 100 wishes for their exes:
1. @my ex: I wish you would stop harassing girls and stop being a player. You’re not. You just creep everyone out.
2. @my ex: I wish you would have appreciated me when you had me instead of deciding to appreciate me once I left.
3. @my ex: I wish you would’ve let me know my worth instead of fighting for it.
4. @my ex: I wish you did not just want me and the other girls you dated for their bodies. Look at the qualities the girls have in their minds
5. @my ex: Wish you understand what you did is classified as abuse
6. @my ex: I wish I could tell her
7. @my ex: I wish you realized that we could have been happy forever, but you fucked that up.
8. @my ex: I wish you’d stopped telling everyone that I’m the one who fucked you up, I wasn’t the abuser in this.
9. @my ex: I wish you understood that nothing justified you lying. I deserve honesty.
10. @my ex: I wish I could stop wanting to care for you and stop pretending that it doesn't hurt that I don't exist to you anymore.
11. @my ex: I stopped wishing my all was good enough for you. You never deserved it, anyways.
12. @my ex: I wish it was just as hard to forget me as it was to forget you.
13. @my ex: I wish you didn’t make me cry, even two years after I broke up with you.
14. @my ex: I wish I was over you.
15. @my ex: Do not text dump a girl. It is just cold. At least ask for a phone call.
16. @my ex: I wish we could talk as friends and you wouldn’t call me by your old nickname for me.
17. @my ex: Thanks for teaching me what love isn’t.
18. @my ex: Thanks for stealing my first kiss, but you did not deserve it. I barely count you as a relationship I had.
19. @my ex: I wish I left you months before I did. I gave you a hundred more chances than you deserved.
20. @my ex: Why did you have to lose everything you had for me when I left for college, yet you would still tell me you loved me no matter how much you didn’t show it.
21. @my ex: Thanks for giving me a reason to leave. I found someone who fit me perfectly.
22. @my ex: You should have let your dog in the house instead of leaving her in the garage, dick.
23. @my ex: Trust me, having sex with you was not enjoyable for the both of us.
24. @my ex: Dick size clearly doesn’t matter because you’re the biggest dick I’ve ever met.
25. @my ex: FUCK YOU (4 people said this).
26. @my ex: I wish you happiness for the rest of your life (2 people said this).
27. @my ex: I hope someday someone hurts you the way you hurt me.
28. @my ex: I hope you learn that mental abuse is still abuse and will affect someone for life.
29. @my ex: I hope you see someday why I had to end things with you. We were in two different points in our lives and we didn’t need to hold each other back.
30. @my ex: I wish you would stop obsessing over me and get a job.
31. @my ex: I wish you weren’t so stuck up and don’t care so much about fitting in. Just wish you would be the person I know you could be and not such an asshole.
32. @my ex: I wish someday you would realize how much you really fucked me up. No girl should ever be treated the way you treated me.
33. @my ex: I wish you knew how to treat girls like princesses, not manipulate them. Girls deserve more than you will ever be able to give.
34. @my ex: I wish you would have loved me like I loved you.
35. @my ex: I wish I didn’t lose my feelings for you.
36. @my ex: I wish someday you find the right person because you’re a great person.
37. @my ex: I wish you the best.
38: @my ex: I wish you put in more effort.
39: @my ex: I wish you have a great life being a cheating lying douche.
40: @my ex: I wish someday you realize that you are capable of real conversation and aren’t a stupid jock.
41: @my ex: I hope someone beats the shit out of you someday.
42: @my ex: I wish you could be more understanding.
43: @my ex: I hope you stop using people to try and fill the empty void inside of you.
44. @my ex: Stop hitting me up, I don’t wanna get back with you
45: @my ex: You were a whore and the girl you cheated with is currently on academic probation so great job!
46: @my ex: I wish you respected my wish to wait on having sex.
47: @my ex: You’re not Doctor Phil so stop trying to psychoanalyze everything about me.
48: @my ex: I wish you would learn how to treat a girl.
49: @my ex: I wish you knew that I don’t like that “move” in bed.
50. @my ex: You’re a bitch, I hope you get an STD.
51. @my ex: I wish you appreciated me when you had me instead of after I left you.
52. @my ex: I wish you would have prioritized my happiness.
53. @my ex: I wish we could have lasted.
54. @my ex: I wish I didn’t ruin my favorite things like Ramen noodles and Beauty and the Beast. They’re haunted with memories of you. I hope you think about me too sometimes; and how you ruined what we could have been. I hope you are less happy without me. I hope you're sorry.
55. @my ex: I wish that you would have been there for me like you’re there for her.
56. @my ex: Thank you for all you put me through, I found someone a million times better.
57. @my ex: I wish you would not have cheated on me.
58. @my ex: I hope all is well for you, and I hope that you’re really still happy, and that whatever you’ve chosen to do takes you far.
59. @my ex: I hope someday you can learn how to have a conversation.
60. @my ex: I wish you didn’t go off and date my friend.
61. @my ex: I hope the best for you. You made my life miserable and you made me cry a bunch. I gave you the benefit of the doubt even though my mum said to leave you a bunch of times because she saw I was upset. I didn’t want you to get mad or anything as well. You got angry a lot and were a jerk and made it seem okay. I later found out you were cheating on me. I lost all my hope in ever dating again. Thanks for the lesson in me finding someone who deserves me!
62. @my ex: I hope you realized how good I was to you.
63. @my ex: I wish you realized that you gave up on something great.
64. @my ex: I wish you would have goals for your future instead of smoking it away.
65. @my ex: I hope you eventually find peace and stop harassing me.
66. @my ex: You need to grow up. You will never get anywhere in life if you keep acting like a spoiled child you treat people like crap and then have them come crawling back to you. I hope you get what comes to you!
67. @my ex: Stop telling everyone I fucked you up. You’re the one who abused me, not the other way around.
68. @my ex: I wish I didn’t miss you.
69. @my ex: I would tell her that she was the worst mistake I have ever made in my life. I wish I had never met her.
70. @my ex: I wish things would have worked out, a part of me still loves you. But we drifted apart.
71. @my ex: I wish you live as much as I do.
72. @my ex: You never appreciated all that I did for you. I am so grateful God showed me the light and allowed me to see life without you would be so much better for me. Now I am happier than I ever was with you.
73. @my ex: I wish for you a good life.
74. @my ex: You never deserved me (4 people said this).
75. @my ex: I never told you but you were the first person I loved.
76. @my ex: You need to go make money and stop thinking about selling weed for a “living” because you won’t be making it far.
77. @my ex: I wish you knew how to divide your time between your interests.
78. @my ex: I wish you could have saw past what you thought and tried to fix it.
79. @my ex: I hope you’re living your life healthier with more peace than you had when we were together.
80. @my ex: I wish you could have communicated directly to me instead of your friends.
81. @my ex: I hope your family finds out you’re gay, fuck you.
82. @my ex: I wish you could be less controlling.
83. @my ex: Using other people will not fix you or fill you, it just creates more emptiness within you and those you claim to love.
84. @my ex: I wish we met a later time in life because we could have lasted longer.
85. @my ex: Nothing will ever justify you lying, I deserved better.
86. @my ex: I wish that you died, you put me through hell.
87. @my ex: I wish you had more respect for people instead of being entitled all the time.
88. @my ex: I wish you would hang out with me more.
89: @my ex: I hope that someday you can be successful.
90. @my ex: I’m sorry I couldn’t realize what was in front of me.
91. @my ex: I wish you would have just chose and be happy with the choice. Stop going back and forth on this, it’s not a matter you can pick and choose from.
92. @my ex: I wish you didn’t have the power to still hurt me after two years of being separated.
93. @my ex: I wish you would get out of my thoughts.
94. @my ex: I hope you know what you lost.
95. @my ex: I wish you wouldn’t play with my heart the way you do, you either want me or you don’t.
96: @my ex: Thank you for making me realize I am never anyone's second choice.
97. @my ex: I wish you didn’t hit me up at the middle of the night.
98. @my ex: I wish you weren’t my first love and my first real relationship, you didn’t take it seriously.
99. @my ex: Stop trying to request all my friends on insta.
100. @my ex: I hope you know, you will always have a special spot in my heart, no matter how much you like it or not.