Being any type of artist is hard. Writing, however, is a next level kind of difficult and, as a result, I have compiled a list of some of the most frustrating things my friends and I have come across as a writer. Do you agree?
1. When people talk to you.
Yes, normally I love to hear about your day and all its funny happenings, but not when I’m trying to scribble an intricate plot — a plot, mind you, that is slowly slipping away with each passing second; a plot that has now left my mind because my characters’ day got mixed up with yours. If your normally bubbly writer/artist friend has suddenly given you the quiet treatment, don’t take it to heart, they are probably just outpouring from their heart.
2. Getting writer’s block.Mostly because you are supposed to be the writer. It’s probably as frustrating, if not more, than an engineer not being able to solve a math problem, mostly because no one can help you. Having a creative block is the most frustrating because you are at the mercy of your inspiration. Or a sleep induced craze at 4 a.m.… Whatever works for you!
3. Hoping your characters exude the personality you imagine them to have.
Hard.
4. Your writing can ALWAYS improve.
Just like an artist, as a writer you only see your flaws. Sure, you might have a great plot, but it could always be better. I’m sure your words flow like a clear river through the minds of the audience, but you will always find something to improve.
5. You would sell your soul to write as beautifully as the famous.
Jane Austen, or the eloquent as Silvia Plath, mesmerizing Edgar Allen Poe, and the bitter reality that you can’t be them. *SIGH*
6. We all want to publish a book that will someday be taught in education.
Admit it, as a writer, we all want to write a soul inspiring piece that will hold worldwide recognition. We want to make our mark on the world and live immortally through our words. Selfish? Nahhhhh.
7. Being forced to write.
Yes, just because we can write doesn’t mean we want to do it all the time. Trust me I would much rather write a fiction piece rather than an essay or research paper that forces a philosophical twist on an ancient virtue. Yes, I had to do this for a class. As a writer, we know what it feels like to passionately throw ourselves into our work, so if we are forced to produce something, sorry professor but you won’t be getting top notch quality; instead, a sassy undertone might emerge because we are good at embedding emotion.
8. Complaining that your critiques are harsh.
Please don’t ask me to look over your paper, because just as I carefully place each word to deliver a certain message, I will make sure you are doing the same. And if not, I have my red pen ready. Just remember: THE RED MARKS ARE THERE BECAUSE I LOVE YOU.
9. “How do you find that fun?” – everyone.
A big thank you to the friends who understand us, to everyone else, UMM BECAUSE I DO?
10. “Can I read your writing?” – everyone.
I'd prefer if you didn’t… Unless you are an extremely open writer (and kudos to you if you are), most writers pour their soul out into their words. Don’t push one to open their notebook up unless they offer. So, as a quick tip, if a write is normally shy and they allow you to read a piece, consider yourself pretty luck friend.
Also, if they say no, don't push them. They will open up to you once they trust you. Believe you me they haven't forgotten you asked.
