1. Finding who you are is the most fulfilling thing you will do.

Sometimes in high school we get sucked into being who our parents want us to be. While there is nothing wrong with wanting to make them proud, it can be overwhelming and exhausting at times. I’m sure most of us can agree that our parents want what’s best for us, but we have to have the freedom to figure out who we are by ourselves. One day you should be able to love who you are and be confident in what you’re doing with your life. This may stress some people out because they don’t know where to start. I will tell you where to start. God. He knows what your life entails, trust that.

2. Once you find that person, never compromise who you are.

You will go through your college career and find that not everyone will like who you are and what you stand for. There will always be people that don’t agree with you, and that’s okay. The best thing we can do is show them patience and love. Even though someone doesn’t like something about you, doesn’t mean you should change who you are. Stand firm in your values and always be proud of the person you have fought so hard to become.

3. Don’t waste your time on boys; they aren’t worth it.

Let’s be honest, college boys are not always what they’re cracked up to be. Find yourself without having to rely on a boy. Be confident and know that you don’t have to be in a relationship to be successful. If you find the person you are meant to be with that’s great, but don’t force a relationship because you feel like you need to have one. The right person will come at the right time (to be honest, I’m in my fourth year and still haven’t found the right one. You still have hope).

4. Getting involved really does change you.

I cannot stress this enough.. GET INVOLVED! Do something while you’re in college. You aren’t here to just go to class and sit in your room. Get involved in different clubs and organizations. Have wholesome fun. Have fun that can develop you into a smarter and better version of yourself.

5. Be nice to everyone, even if they don’t deserve it.

As I said in my second point, you will stumble upon people that just don’t like you. Always be kind to these people. It’s not the easiest thing to do, and I can attest to that, but it’s worth it. At the end of the day, you will be more satisfied with being the bigger person. Stooping down to their level will never bring satisfaction.

6. Going to class is beneficial.

The primary reason you are in college is to get an education, don’t forget that part. Go to class and learn the material. You might be surprised how much it actually prepares you for your future. Shocking, right?

7. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there.

There are going to be times that you have to make tough decisions. My philosophy is, take the chance. Personally, I would rather live with knowing the answer than asking what if? Sometimes the decision you will make can bring about embarrassment, but if you’re anything like me, you embarrass yourself daily. It’s nothing new.

8. Take advantage of the free food opportunities.

If your campus is anything like mine, there is free food just about every day. Put these times in your planner and make it a point to go. Most of the time the food is pretty amazing, and it’s normally at a church establishment where there is good fellowship. It’s also an amazing way to meet other college students that love food just as much as you do.

9. Love yourself!

This is one of my favorite tips! It seems simple, but it is so important. Be sure that you are proud of who you are. If you aren’t, no one else can be either. Spend time each week having some “me time.” Treat yourself. There is nothing wrong with making sure you are taken care of.

10. I saved this one for last because it is the most important (“best for last”- hopefully that’s still a thing). Always always always make sure Jesus is with you wherever you go, and that you spend time with him.

Coming to college and being a new student can be a little scary. Trying to figure out what you want to do with your life can be even scarier. If you have Jesus with you, you have nothing to worry about. He will guide you and give you a peace that only He can offer. Don’t forget to spend time with Him daily. He wants to hear from you, and He wants to help you. Place your trust in Him and you can’t go wrong!