One person. One person to face struggles with. One person who will love you unconditionally. One person who loves you for the way you are. One person who only wants you. One person to spend your life with. One person is all we want right? One person who you know will be there when you need them the most. That one person who you want to do all those things with may not be the right guy.

1. He doesn’t care if you’re hurting. If he doesn’t care that you’re crying or in pain, he doesn’t care about your feelings or your well-being. Even if he’s the cause of it.
2. He is constantly blaming you for his mistakes. No matter how much proof you give him that it is his fault the blame will always be on you. Every argument will be your fault. He never takes responsibility for what he does wrong.
3. He doesn’t want to better himself or the relationship. He doesn’t want to fix the struggles your relationship together might have. And as a person, he doesn’t want to better his life which will weigh you down when you want to succeed.
4. No matter what you do or who you are with he doesn’t trust you. When you’re out with your girls or even at a family event, he wants proof you’re not lying. He doesn’t trust you no matter what you’re doing.
5. He does whatever he wants. Well yes, we are all are own person but when you’re in a relationship everything is a 2-way street. If you can’t do something, how is it fair he can?
6. What are boundaries? He believes that flirting with others girls or cheating isn’t wrong. He doesn’t understand that there are boundaries you don’t cross within a relationship.
7. It’s not about the little things. When you try to do an occasional good thing for them, they tend to not understand why or even care what you do for them.
8. He takes more than he gives. If you feel that the relationship is one way, it probably is. Are you the only one trying to fix things? Is he constantly asking you for things and doesn’t reciprocate love or support or even doing things for you.
9. He doesn’t give you support, love or time. He doesn’t support anything that you want to do it can be a new promotion or even what you want to do in your future. He doesn’t show you love or attention, he tends to ignore you for hours upon hours. He sometimes even only texts you when he wants something.
10. He doesn’t know what he wants out of the relationship. He says he loves you but sometimes is unsure of what you are to him. He doesn’t know if he loves the idea of you or actually loves you and his actions will provide you your answer.