I am not saying you want to fall in love with me, but if that were the case, would you be willing to put up with the fact that I am not perfect? I am my toughest judge; possibly my worst. If you're like me, maybe you do want to find some good in everything. Here are 10 reasons you don't want to fall in love with a girl like me.
1. I've already planned my future.
I know what I want and when I want it. I have things in mind that I know I need to achieve what I want. I will not allow anyone to get in the way of me achieving the things I want. Not even the “love of my life”. Therefore, I will make sure you stay on top of your goals and you achieve them, because I know how much wanting something can impact you.
2. I'm loud.
I laugh loud. I talk loud. I argue loud. I'm just loud. My thoughts are loud and I am outspoken. Being told to keep my voice down enrages me. I will always speak up for you, for us. Don't doubt the power of my voice.
3. Sometimes I get way too excited about things.
I try to get excited about nearly everything. I enjoy the small things and I will show my excitement. I can't control it. If you tell me we are getting wings on Thursday, I will get excited. If you tell me you got the promotion, I will get excited. I will be annoying #1 supporter, always.
4. I keep it real.
I will always tell you how I feel. I will want you to know you're loved every day and if you do something wrong, I will want to tell you. I will tell you the good and the bad. You will always find honesty inside of me.
5. I change my mind about simple things a lot.
I enjoy change to an extent. I want to continue to try and experience new things. I am willing to give change a chance and I can accommodate my life to certain things if it's for the best.
6. I am big on family.
I love meeting family and I love introducing people to my family. The thing is, in the past, I am the girl that your mom will still ask about and your grandma will still comment on my pictures on Facebook. I will leave and imprint just like you will leave an imprint on my family.
7. I am different.
I will not try and become something I am not. I accept the person I am and I have confidence in that. I do not want to be classified under a group of people. I want to be my own person. I will not change the way I am and with that, I will leave my mark on everything I can.
8. I love too hard.
If I love you, I will not let myself forget you. I am a fighter and I will fight for the things I love. I will fight to keep us going and I will love you the whole way through.
9. My mind does not rest.
I overthink every little thing. Rarely anything is simple to me. I complicate things in my head and try to find a way to portray what I am thinking. I enjoy analyzing people, their actions, their next move, everything about them. I will evaluate you. I will take a journey along your body. Memorize every part. I will analyze your mind, wanting to know more and having an understanding of the person you are.
10. I will always look for the good.
If things get tough and there seems to be nothing good left, I will find that good. I believe there is always good in the world and in people. Even if you can't see it, it is there, the good is there. I will always look for the good in everything, and never doubt its existence or its reasoning.
