Contrary to popular belief, being single has its perks--especially in college. Most young women fantasize about the day they'll meet their significant other. But before you consider jumping into any sort of relationship, here me out on some of the reasons why it's okay not to be romantically invested in another individual:
1. Because you can do whatever you want
Stay out 'till 3 A.M. and sleep 'till 3 P.M. in the afternoon. Binge watch Netflix all day. Spend the day shopping. Go mingle with boys. Do whatever your heart desires; it’s a beautiful thing.
2. Because you didn’t settle
I’ve bet you’ve met a bunch of guys that were totally awesome, but that "it" factor was missing. Don't beat yourself up over what that something was because you deserve everything you’re looking for in a guy.
3. Because you can date anyone
Long gone are the days where you can’t acknowledge a good looking stranger because you have a significant other. You are free to date as you please, so go get his number girl.
4. Because you don’t have to shave your legs all the time
YAY!
5. Because you don’t have to share
Enjoy the fact that you don’t have to live your entire life with someone else in mind. Have double the serving of ice-cream. Take up all the blankets. Be selfish. Do things for you.
6. Because there is still time to work on yourself
No one is perfect. Use the time when you’re single to better yourself. Go out into the world and learn what you're passionate about. That way, when it is time to embark on a new relationship, you know exactly what you're looking for in a significant other.
7. Because you can stay cool with your exes
Not being in a relationship means you don’t have to worry about jealous boyfriends. You can catch up with exes over lunch or even try reigniting the flame that was once there.
8. Because you can wear whatever you want
What’s better than having the option of wearing sweat pants all day and having your hair up in a bun?
9. Because some of the most amazing women are single
Taylor Swift is single. Sandra Bullock is single. Both of these women are successful influential powerful women, who also happen to be single.
10. Because the best has yet to come
Things happen for a reason, I really believe that. So, if you haven’t found your soulmate yet, it’s okay. At the end of the day, be comfortable with who you are and love yourself--the rest will come naturally.
