1. You are imperfect. Permanently and inevitably flawed- and you are beautiful.
Guess what no one is perfect! shocker right? Well no, but seriously we all have our own flaws and our own setbacks. We all have things we wish we could change, but why would we want to do that? God spent time on us and loves us exactly as we are. We are all beautiful and imperfect, embrace it!
2. What if every day is the perfect day to finally be exactly who you were always meant to be?
Everyday is a brand new day, with that being said every day is the perfect day to finally do what you've always wanted to do, to be the person you want to be. If you have secret addictions today is the day to stop. If you want to get healthy, today is the day to start! Stop procrastinating.
3. You have to love yourself because no amount of love from others is sufficient to fill the yearning that your soul requires from YOU!
First and foremost it is so important that you love you. No relationship will ever be enough if you don't first learn about yourself, and your flaws, and fall in love with yourself.
4. You may be pretty and you may be talented, but NOBODY will remember that if you're mean.
Sure thing, you got a pretty face and you do your job well. You're successful and you're working your way to the top. But i promise nobody will remember any of that if you're mean. People are drawn to niceness, we feed off of it. Word of the wise, if you want to go far in life, treat people right!!
5. There are no beautiful surfaces without a terrible depth.
Your story makes you who you are, it makes you beautiful. Never be ashamed of your story no matter what it entails. We all have one, and it makes each and every one of us unique.
6. It's your road, and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one will walk it for you.
People will go with you on your journey. They will give you advice and comfort. But one thing they can't do is go at it for you. You have to deal with every decision you make and live with what comes after it. So it's good to take advice and help from people but remember they aren't walking in your shoes, you are!
7. Don't feel stupid if you don't like what some people pretend to love.
How awful is this? Conformity is a major deal in today's world. Everyone feels as if they need to be like every one else or they won't be accepted and loved. But you're wrong! People will respect you so much more if you have your own beliefs and views and express those and lead your own path instead of following the crowd.
8. Never apologize for being sensitive or emotional. Let this be a sign that you've got a big heart and aren't afraid to let others see it.
We've been taught that showing our emotions is a sign of weakness, but how wrong is that? Showing your emotions is a sign of strength!! Everyone has feelings and no one should be hiding them. You're a person and with that comes emotions and all that icky stuff so let it out!
9. You have to say to yourself 'I'm not willing to accept anything less than what I deserve, I am smart, I am beautiful, I am good!'
Stop settling. It isn't worth it, you deserve to be happy not miserable. Believe it or not, but you deserve the world, so please please please don't accept anything less. Get out there and find your happy ending!
10. Eventually all things fall into place. Until then. Laugh at the confusion. Live for the moments. and know everything happens for a reason.
One day everything will be in sync. Everything that you've worked so hard for will fall perfectly into place. So until then stop worrying, laugh at the hard times, accept them, continue to work hard and put yourself out there, but never give up.
