Grandmothers are amazing, there's no doubt about it. They not only spoil their grandchildren, but since they have been around longer, they have many valuable lessons to teach us.
1. Be yourself.
This is very important in life. If you can't be yourself, who are you supposed to be? Many times in my life I would compare myself to others. I wanted to be like other people. I was jealous of their accomplishments. For a long time, I forgot who I was. I'm trying to find myself now.
2. The truth will set you free.
Sometimes it is easier to lie, but with lies you must create more lies to cover those lies. It is just easier to tell the truth. My relationship with my family and friends would be utterly ruined if they couldn't trust me.
3. Try to be happy.
My grandma always told me to not let sadness or negative thoughts get the best of me. It is so easy for thoughts to run your life
4. Learn how to cook.
My grandma is an amazing cook. She is italian and makes the best food. Because I want to give her joy, I want to learn how to cook like she does.
5. Always do your best.
This is so important in life. There have been times in my life where I did not want to try. I was lazy. Grandma always told me to try your best even if A) I dont feel like my best is good enough and B) If Im not feeling up for it. However, we all have those days where we do not feel like living life to our fullest potential, and thats okay. However, if it becomes a regular occurance, then something is not right.
6. Thoughts aren't real.
This may sound weird, but the thoughts we have are not real. They are not tangible. Thoughts do not have to define you. This means that just because you think you are not that attractive, it does not mean that that's the truth. Reality is in the eye of the beholder.
7. Don't make decisions based on feelings.
Think before you act. Many times feelings are irrational, so if we make decisions based on feelings, then we can get ourselves into trouble. For example, if you are sad, do not turn it into being self destructive. Do not make the decision to isolate yourself because you feel bad.
8. Prayers can help.
My grandmother is a religious person, and her faith is unwavering. She always told me that God was good, and that He will help me out when I am in need of it, and even when I am not in need of it and things in my life are going well. Do not be afriad to turn to God for help, in fact, He welcomes it.
9. Never spoil the ending to Days of Our Lives.
My grandma and I share the love for soap operas. They are just so good! Once I spoiled a little part for her, and she gave me the silent treatment for the rest of the day.
10. Worry less.
She always taught me to not worry about what others think, my grades, and my relationships. As long as I am giving what I can give, that is all I could possibly do, and she understands that. She never had super high expectations. The only she thing has ever asked me to worry about is not worrying!
