We could all list the qualities of a person that make them unattractive. Being lazy, rude, uncompassionate, or arrogant all hit the top of (hopefully) most of our lists. However, let's focus in on what actually make a person more attractive in our eyes.
1. A sense of humor
Taking life too seriously is never good. The ability for another person to make you laugh is easily one of the best traits any person can have.
2. Compassion
A lack of empathy should be a red flag for most of us. If a person is genuinely kind and empathetic with others, it demonstrates their goodness as a person.
3. Consistency
There's little things that are more of a turn-off than someone who's there for you one day and then gone the next. When a person day by day keeps showing their interest, it's attractive.
4. Humility
Nobody wants to date someone who is already in love with themselves. To be confident and love yourself as a person is different than boasting about every accomplishment you've ever had since birth. Save it for the right time; humility goes a long way.
5. Open-mindedness
That's correct, you aren't always right. Having the ability to accept other people's beliefs/lifestyles even if you disagree is a positive aspect in any person.
6. Honesty
Getting caught in a lie could be one of the largest turn-offs. To lie to any person is downright disrespectful, let alone your potential significant other.
7. Being a good listener
"What college did you say you go to again?" After dating for eight months may not be appropriate. When a person can remember little details about your life, it's appreciated more than we all think.
8. Good hygiene
Sitting next to a person that smells repulsive will never get anyone in the "mood." Hit the shower, keep a clean cut, and spray some cologne/perfume for your own sake.
9. Motivation
Lying around on the couch all day eating potato chips 24/7 isn't exactly how we picture our future life partner. Whether it's a desire to do well in school, work out at the gym or even participate in several activities, it all causes a greater sense of attraction because it demonstrates a strong drive in life.
10. Happiness
A constant complainer that's dragging you down is not attractive in any manner. A person who you always leaves you feeling better after hanging out will inevitably create a stronger attraction and desire.
Moral of the story: Be yourself, but don't be a rude, selfish idiot. Good luck in the law of attraction.
