You had a great love. A totally consuming, breathtaking love. You let him become your world, and he took that for granted. You told him your deepest, most personal secrets. You shared everything with him. You trusted him with your heart, and he abused that privilege. I know it’s hard right now and you probably won’t believe me, but I have some great news to cheer you up: you will love again, sweet girl, and it will be amazing.
As hard as it is to do, you have to let go of the past in order to ease the pain. I know I know, you’ve heard it a thousand times from all of your other friends. And I also know that right now it seems like an impossible thing to do. But you can do it, you have to. You can’t spend all of your time and energy fighting for something that just isn’t there. You know how the saying goes, “Don’t look back, or you’ll miss what’s in front of you.” Cheesy, right? But oh so true. If you are stuck in the past waiting for the wrong love to realize what he’s lost, the right guy is going to come along and you will completely miss it.
I’m not saying that you can’t have a mourning period. Of course you can, in fact, you should. I insist upon it! Everyone needs a good cry when you lose something that was at one point so very important to you. However, do not let it consume you. Don’t let a week of crying turn into a month, or several months. Do not sit around saying you're fine and that you’ve moved on, but in your heart, you are waiting for him to come back. You are young, and you have your whole life ahead of you. Pick up the pieces, brush it off, and move forward.
God has a plan for you. It didn’t work out with this relationship, but that just means that whoever this fella was, is not the one God has picked out especially for you to spend the rest of your life with. Stay focused, trust in Him, and let Him lead you to the wonderful man that He has coming your way. Going through a breakup is hard, trust me I’ve been there too. In those times when you feel like you are worthless and completely heartbroken, go to God. Talk to Him, and listen to what He has to say. Let Him help you through it. He will comfort you and love you. He will help you understand that those who walk out of your life are not meant to be in your future, and that He has something better planned for you. It seems inconceivable to have something even better than the relationship you just had that at one point made you so happy, but just trust in God and let him guide you to it so He can show you.
It will get better. You will love again. You will be happy again. Keep moving forward darling, you have so much to look forward to.
