Society puts a lot of pressure on women to be the perfect girlfriend, but the truth is being a perfect girlfriend in today's society doesn't count for anything. A woman can be the most beautiful girl in the world; a man will cheat with a girl that is less attractive.
You can be educated, beautiful, and intelligent; males cheat on loyal women to boost their ego. A woman can be perfect, pretty, pay all the bills, have a good job, independent, faithful and for some reason, he will still cheat. Making her ask the question, how dare he cheat on me with a girl that is less than me?
We women need to realize that we are not the problem, so if you give you’re everything in a relationship and in return he cheats on you, you should not blame yourself.
Only someone that is stupid and weak-minded will keep hurting you while you are constantly doing the right thing.
By cheating on a good woman, a man can destroy a woman's self-esteem. She will become insecure. She will constantly doubt herself, and asking herself. What is wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? Maybe it's my attitude. Maybe I am not pretty enough, maybe I am not slim enough and maybe I complain too much. She would feel like she does not have a lot to offer a man, let alone a relationship. She will be willing to settle.
A man that takes advantage of a woman would start to feel worthless, would start blaming herself and start thinking he is worth more than her. Men think by cheating, they would make the woman see that he is wanted and desirable so she will in return care more. She would be so used to feeling worthless that she will lower her standards and starts to expect being hurt.
A women whose loyalty is taken for granted will no longer believe in love, she will become bitter, less kind and less optimistic about the world. She wills no longer laugh as she used to, her will no longer give love a chance and will give the other guys a hard time. In the long run, she will put up a wall in fear to be hurt again, she will throw herself in to work, she will focus on herself or her kids and she will no longer wants to be herself again.
The worst thing she is going to do is stay in the relationship. She will try to stay with him to prove to him she is better than the girl he cheated on her with. To prove to herself she can fight for his love and can help him by help change by fooling herself. He will get whatever he wants her in the end, just by cheating.
Men, must realize that we women are not obligated to hold them down and stay by their side, after we getting cheated on, lie to us, and use us and disrespect us over & over. A relationship goes both way. You can invest years, money, time and relationship and make tons of sacrifices and still will get left stranded at the end. Hey, that's a guy for you.
