College can be a very interesting four years. It can really feel like a roller coaster of ups and downs. However, in the end, we know that college will go by faster than we think, so we better soak up every happy, tired and confused minute of it. It is also helpful to know that Netflix star Kimmy Schmidt knows what we are going through, and can help us laugh about our struggles.
When you learn you have to fake it until you make it.
College is all about acting like you know what you are doing until you actually do. Sometimes all it takes for others to believe that you are successful is to believe that you are first.
When you force yourself to get out and make new friends.
Odds are the first people you meet will not be your life long pals. Eventually, you will meet those set of people who are just as weird as you are and you won't be able to remember what life was like before you met them.
When your major is killing you.
Every major comes with its own painful checklist. However, the good news is if you pick a major that you are passionate about then the bad times will be manageable.
When your parents see your dorm for the first time.
Let’s be real, dorm rooms are unrealistically small. Add some decor and warm colors to make the room happier, and remind your parents that you are in it for the experience.
When you are stuck on campus and your friends are already on break.
With colleges being on different schedules there is always a friend left behind. If you are stuck in class while your high school best friends are tanning on the beach it can be difficult. Remember that a break is right around the corner.
When you have to give your roommate instructions.
It is very important to have good communication with your roommate. You need to discuss who will take the trash out, who will bring what, and most importantly what is their sleeping schedule?
When your professor thinks you cannot do an assignment the night before.
This is the ultimate challenge that every college student has taken on, and many have been victorious. At the end of the day, you have to manage your time on what works best for you.
Trying to stay positive through terrible mistakes.
College is full of making terrible mistakes. However, it is how you handle your mistakes that show what kind of person you are. Admit to your mistakes, laugh about it, and try harder next time.
When the professor tell you that you need to work harder.
It is challenging to balance academics, social life, health and extracurricular activities. Accept advice whenever you can, and try to put your best foot forward every day.
When you have to start making your own appointments and decisions.
It is a whole new world trying to communicate with other adults and act like you can do things by yourself, when in reality, it is a good day when you can figure out the copier machine.
When your extroverted friends try to drag you out of your dorm.
Try to get out and do something fun once a day. You can meet new people and get your mind off of worrying about grades and scores.
When the professor holds the class over the time limit.
Being held over a class feels like you are going to explode. However, just keep smiling while nonchalantly putting your things away, and be prepared to sprint to make it to your next class.
When you and your roommate have to decide who is buying that week's groceries.
Whatever you choose make sure you are both on the same page. There are a few things scarier than a stressed out teenage girl who just found out her last cookie is gone.
When you and your suit mates get really deep with each other late at night.
Whether it is cruising around campus or chilling in pajamas in the dorm room, this is where common interests are exposed and embarrassing middle school stories find a new life.
When you see the campus cutie.
Every campus has "the cutie" and if you are lucky enough to pass by them you know how it feels. He is probably taken or not interested but keep on dreaming.
When you ask the professor for clarification but it makes it worse.
A lot of the times a professors explanation can make you more confused than when you started. Find the smart kid in the class and ask them because they will have the students perspective.
When you try to communicate with your group members for a project.
Getting everyone on the same page is half the battle. Just try to listen to everyone's ideas and try to incorporate it into the project.
When you wear the same outfit on Monday and Tuesday because it is a different set of people.
You can be a totally different person on Monday as you are Tuesday. This means you can repeat outfits, make different friends, and use the same jokes.
You do not have to live under your parents' rules anymore.
College means curfews do not exist, you cannot remember what a balanced diet is, and your room can forever look like a tornado just went through it. However, even with all of this freedom, you will still call you mom when you forget how to do laundry.
When the sleep deprivation is too real.
College is all about staying up all night in hopes of saving your GPA. This can lead to many things such as being grouchy, slap happy, or delirious. It is all worth it in the end.
When its a daily thing to give yourself a pep talk.
Your biggest motivator and critic is yourself. Giving yourself a pep talk can boost your mood, self-esteem, and give you that extra push to keep on going.
When you meet "those girls".
You thought you would leave the mean girl back in high school, but sadly they are here too. You will recognize these girls as the ones who take their appearances too seriously and have to bring others down to survive.
When you see the self-destructing freshman.
There is always that one freshman that goes crazy as soon as they get to college. They will not show up to class and stick their heads under the soft serve machine.They will eventually settle down or leave, but help as you can.
But, in the end, you know it will be some of the greatest years of your life.
In the end, college will be some of the greatest and most confusing years of your life. These are the years to discover who you really are and to make friendships that will last for years to come. Work hard, but remember to have fun.
