A Year To Remember

A Year To Remember

A recap of my 2016 & fingers crossed for 2017

I'm writing this at 11:42 p.m. on December 31st, 2016.

Not shockingly at all, but New Year's blindsided me, as did Christmas (which I rushed to throw together once the semester ended), as did Thanksgiving (which was pitifully celebrated by three people around a slightly pink turkey at 8:00 in the evening whilst I alternated between editing papers & mashing potatoes).

I'm not upset about this though because I've never been one for New Year's, as it is primarily a drinking/staying up late holiday (neither of which I am fond of). However, after reading a few lengthy Facebook posts of friends and being sucked into participating in the Instagram #bestnine2016, I started--inevitably--reflecting on my year.

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The highlights of my year (chronologically) were:

+ Starting writing for Odyssey--Happy one year to me (though I took a brief sabbatical in the summer to prepare for my thesis).

+ My one year anniversary of marriage and our honeymoon do-over (read all about it here).

+ Turning 21--though again not a huge drinker.

+ My six year anniversary with my now husband.

+ Becoming president of Brenau's chapter of Sigma Tau Delta & simultaneously seeing two of my best friends graduate/abdicate.

+ Helping publish The Elixir's 2015-16 edition.

+ Completing spring semester and my first year as a college mom.

+ Moving into our renovated apartment situation (read all about it here).

+ Becoming The Elixir's new editor in chief & creating our new website.

+ While I was on a wordpress kick, I also started my own blog.

+ Welcoming my daughter's first cousin into the world--on my husband's birthday no less (which just happens to be the same day as Harry Potter's & J.K. Rowling's).

+ I celebrated my daughter turning one year old...excuse me while I go cry in a corner...(check out her super awesome pineapple/flamingo party here).

+ I started my own Happiness Project modeled after the book by Grethen Rubin, which is a monthly set of goals/resolutions designed to improve--you guessed it!--my happiness (read all about it here).

+ I started my senior year of college.

+ I committed to going to Cambridge University for a 4 week summer semester (read all about it here).

+ I founded an online support group for mothers/students at Brenau (click here to check it out).

+ My blog welcomed its first guest writer: Becca Jean the Hiccup Queen.

+ I found out that the roundtable proposal on digital writing for Brenau & UNG's chapter of Sigma Tau Delta had been accepted to present at the national convention this coming March.

+ I edited & published a Southern Literature magazine (alongside my colleagues) and it was inducted into the rare books room at Brenau as the inaugural issue of Dr. Dobkins' collection.

+ I completed my first creative thesis (special circumstances have dictated that I do two) and received an A with an honorary plus. Look for the short stories on my blog!

+ I bought my matron of honor dress for my best friend's wedding.

+ I WON a scholarship from Sigma Tau Delta for $1,000 towards my Cambridge trip (read my scholarship essay here).

Of course there were some low-points, like my creative nonfiction paper for the Sigma Tau Delta convention being rejected (which incidentally is about my honeymoon do-over), but overall it was a great year.

Things I'm hoping for the new year are to get through another semester with As & Bs, see my blog get some more traffic, raise enough funds to go to Cambridge, celebrate two more anniversaries and three more family birthdays, successfully participate on the roundtable, publish a new edition of The Elixir, find an internship for my last semester, GRADUATE with a B.A. in English, and figure out what the hell I'm going to do after that.

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Empowering Mantras That Soothe The Soul

Learn and repeat these mantras to center yourself.

January is the month of change. We can decide to change at any time during the year, but the start of the new year pushes us to be our best self. If you have something you want to stop, or start doing, now is the time. As I sit in Spain far away from my family, friends, and peanut butter (which is shockingly impossible to find in Spain), I’m confronted with a new challenge and a new opportunity to grow. Although studying abroad is an incredible opportunity and I am more than grateful, I would be lying if I said there aren’t moments of crying in the shower and longing for my body pillow at home (his name is Maxwell and he is pink, and no, I’m not pregnant).

Whenever I get overwhelmed I find it extremely helpful to stop, take a deep breath (or sixty) and repeat calming mantras to myself until the feeling passes. Mantras can be words or sentences and phrases that you can repeat to yourself anytime, although traditionally they have been used during meditation. The goal is to help focus the mind internally and block out any external distractions. It helps to center you and mentally decongest. Scientifically, the benefits are incredible.

The repetition of mantras have been linked to a decrease in heart rate, brain waves and the ability to slow down breathing.

“I am enough”

Fake it till you make it. Believe it or not, say it over and over again. We are what we think, so think positive.

“This too shall pass”

Life goes on even when you think it can’t. We have to experience the peaks and valleys to live a full life. Remember that in a bad moment, it will pass and a new feeling will replace it. And treasure and revel in the good moments because you know what you have overcome and what you may face in the future.

“I am grateful”

Your nail breaks, you spill your coffee, you tumble down a flight of stairs. Plenty of things happen throughout our days that may cloud our overall perception. Challenge yourself in those negative moments to list three events or people you may have overlooked that made your day brighter. Gratitude literally alters the way our brains process our emotions and thoughts and the best part is that we are in control of making our thoughts positive.

“Let it Be”

Time and time again we learn this lesson. It is what it is, what will be will be. That’s not to say it’s always a graceful moment of acceptance, but there’s a certain freedom in knowing that so many things are out of our control.

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5 Must Things To Do During Second Semester

Looking for things to do during this winter season? This list has got you covered.

For many of us who have just started our second semester, or are about to, the stress of college is about to come at you full force and smack you in the face. Personally, I find second semester to be much more difficult compared to first semester.

First semester is filled with tailgates, football games, hayrides, pumpkin patches, Thanksgiving, Halloween, the list can go on and on. Due to the fact that there's so many more activities to do first semester than second, that can lead to a semi-dull second semester. With that being said however, here's a list of things you can do to prevent all that boredom.

1. Go to other sporting events that your college offers you

College sports are one of the best parts of living in America so you might as well take full advantage of them. Even though football season may be over, hockey and basketball season are in full swing right now. Also, by end of March and beginning of April, baseball will start as well. Going to games as a student is a great way to have fun with your friends while not having to bust open the piggy bank.

2. Pajama and movie nights

A simple enough idea, but has the potential to have tons of fun if you decide to give it your all. During the winter, especially up north, it can be brutally cold so staying inside is priority majority of the time. But that doesn't mean there's not a way to enjoy all that cold.

Curl up with your best friends whether it be in your dorm room or apartment while showing off the funniest or best pajamas you own. Pick out your favorite movies and settle down for a night full of laughter, gossip, and memories.

3. Enjoy the outdoors

Even though I just said that winters up north can be brutally, there's still plenty to offer when it comes to enjoying the great outdoors. Go ice skating and watch all of your friends struggle to stay upright and fall down, or go skiing/snowboarding and enjoy the beauty of the snow while getting a great workout in.

Or, you could be like my friends and steal dining hall food trays and use those to sled down some hills. Having these options can help you look forward to the winter and enjoy activities other than staying inside.

4. Go to a museum

Learning about different cultures or parts of history can be a lot more fascinating than people would like to admit. Go to your local college museum and check out cool facts there or drive to a city around you to check out other museums as well. If you're close to a moderate to large city, you will usually be able to find a history museum, aquarium, or some type of science museums. These are fun ways to learn new facts about the past, present, and future of our world.

5. Day trip

Spontaneous (or not spontaneous) day trips can be a blast with your friends or significant other. Choose a random place to go and drive there. Find something to do wherever you go. You'll make some great memories that'll last you a lifetime. It doesn't even have to be far, it can be only 30 minutes away and still be just as fun. Where the destination is doesn't matter, it's who you're going with that matters.

I hope these 5 ideas of what to do in the winter will help you enjoy your second semester of college while still having as much as first semester. After all, you're only in college for four years, so take advantage of everything you can do while you can!

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