I have found time and time again that the compliment of choice for Generation X,Y, and Z has been “cute.” Ladies, really think about how many times you’ve been texting something and they’ve called you cute. The answer is TOO MANY. While I totally appreciate the compliment, it’s a worn out word that seems robotic. The “I think you’re really cute” text makes me cringe, honestly. It’s like there’s a list of adjectives that boys/girls use and the first word on that list is cute. The originality is suffocating. Right after cute, the next couple of adjectives on that master list would be hot, sexy, and beautiful, etc.
I can totally appreciate being complimented on my appearance; there is nothing wrong with admiring the clothes I wear, the lipstick I put on, or the smile I flash. But I would hope that all these things lead to something more resounding than cute.
But I’d like to think that there is more to me than just my clothes, my lipstick, and my smile. Right?! I’d like to think I’m someone interesting to get to know, or someone who carries herself gracefully, or someone who doesn’t have to flaunt it all to get attention. I’d like to think that I amount to being classy, intriguing, or interesting.
My favorite definition of classy is “classy is when a woman has everything to flaunt but chooses not to.” I’ve never felt the need to flaunt everything I have. I’d much rather leave things to the imagination. Being called classy makes me feel timeless and strong- something "cute", does not make me feel. Classy speaks to me on a variety of grounds. I think that it implies that I am stylish and elegant. I also think that it means I am sweet, gentle, and caring.
How does one word mean so much? Well, that’s the best part. Classy is infinitely meaningful. It can be so many positive and motivating traits. I think it’s a physical, emotional, and mental compliment. What better triad? There is so much power behind those six letters. I think most of all being classy is about being humble.
We often say things just to say things. Think about that next time you give a compliment.
