The faithful day comes where your parents drop you off at your dorm, help you unload the car, your mom makes your bed, and then your parents say their goodbyes.
College can be rough on parents. If your parents are anything like mine, I knew from the very first day of college that my relationship with them would never be the same.
Growing up your parents are just that: parents. They discipline you and give you advice; they are your elders. You respect them, rebel on them in high school, and you even think about running away.
But when they drop you off at your new home for the next four years, you begin to see the strings they attached to you, form into one single, unbreakable bond.
As you wave to them pulling away from your building, you may see your mom turn away or your dad stare intently ahead. This is because they realize, just like you, something has changed.
For the next four years, you will slowly rely more and more on your parents, but not as parents, as friends. You will call your mom for advice on how to remove a stain or how to properly cook noodles. Your dad will be the first one you call if your car breaks down or you don't understand your math homework.
Your parents morph into irreplaceable human beings who you will never be able to imagine your life without.
All they have done for you now, and all they will do for you in the future, will hit you like a high speed train that will never stop.
This Holiday Season, as you go home to your parents, give them your time, your laughs, your hugs, your love, and, most importantly, your thanks.
Thank them for everything: cooking, cleaning, setting the table, or perhaps just for being there.
Give thanks for your parents this Thanksgiving, and Christmas, but make sure you give thanks the other 363 days, too.





















