Why Do You Love Writing?

Why Do You Love Writing?

Writing is an outlet.

When you were younger, everyone had a specific subject strength in school. There were those who excelled in math, science, history, art, or for me, english. Ever since I could remember I enjoyed mastering all of the pronouns and verb tenses, and never thought twice about conjunctions and conjugations.

I was the child who would rather be assigned an eight-paged paper than read about the internal contents of the human body. A lot of friends seemed to sway the other way, but it had never occurred to me that my interest of english and writing could ever affect my post-high school schooling in any way.

You can ask anyone, growing up I started hundreds of my own “stories” with my neighbors in our very own book club. We allowed any creative thought in our minds to be formed on paper, and felt satisfied with our ideas. We conversed with one another if we ever got writer’s block, drew covers, wrote pages upon pages, and read through each other’s work to give feedback. It was fun. It was freeing. It felt like a part of us.

Fast forward to middle school, I entered public school and was surprised with some of the discoveries I’d made. I had wonderful english teachers that exposed me to the true elements of literature, and guided our class through intriguing short stories like “The Tell Tale Heart”. I was taught so many different perspectives of writing that it kept me coming to class eager to learn more. Most of my friends assumed I was absurd for enjoying the writing assignments, but it was an opportunity for me to be creative, and get credit for it.

Entering high school, I chose to take the “honors” english course, as they were called at the time, while all my friends took on the challenge of advanced science and math classes in addition to the english course. I was slightly overwhelmed at all of the assignments and high expectations from the start, but I liked writing, so it shouldn’t be too bad, right?


I was pushed to the max each year in english from freshman year through my senior year. The summer reading assignments, never-ending annotations, analysis paper after analysis paper, critiques, powerpoint presentations over authors, endless literary devices, poems, and—surprise—really difficult, complex tests I over-thought every time! I questioned why I was doing this to myself, but I kept trudging along.

From what I’d experienced at that point in time, I considered writing something I was “decent” at, but nothing more. After all, as years went on, the workload increased, and suddenly this wasn’t like the make believe stories I created back in elementary school. I never thought I was good enough to do anything with writing, or had any opportunities with it.

However, I was wrong. During the second semester of my senior year, it clicked. I remember sitting in class, watching the digital clock and trying to calculate exactly how many minutes were left until lunch, when my teacher pulled up a video about the importance of writing. It touched on all of the possibilities, the benefit of all of the skills we were learning, and the purpose writers have. They have the privilege, and opportunity, to share their voice with the world. (It made me teary-eyed for some reason, not going to lie). From that moment on, everything I had done previously, clicked. Suddenly assignments became enjoyable, and I put my all into every assignment. My effort wasn’t just improving my grades, but also my self-esteem. I had finally found my niche.

When I went off to college, my writing abilities weren’t exactly first on my radar when I went through course selections and major/minor decisions, even though it was one of the few things I was confident on scholastically.

I trusted myself, and wanted to utilize the campus as a new opportunity to discover any untapped potential. However, after being assigned papers, both nerve-racking and enjoyable, I realized I had finally discovered what truly made me happy. Regardless of the amount of time I may complain about the amount of time writing will take, I thoroughly enjoy it. After coming to this realization, I changed my minor to Creative Writing. It was a simple process, but a transforming moment. I felt as if this nagging from years past finally had its way, and I decided to do something about my love for writing.

With a campus of around 26,000 people, I get asked quite often what my major/minor is, or what classes I’m taking for the current semester. After informing them of all of the writing courses I’m involved in, they appear taken back, asking me either why I would do that to myself, or why I loved writing so much. My answer, was simple. I’d spent years wondering what made myself continue with such a unique skill, and want to constantly make improvements. I guess in this case ‘practice makes perfect’ really can make a difference (sorry for the cliche phrase B-Ram).

Writing is an outlet. It’s a way to express yourself without speaking at all, but saying a whole lot. It’s a way for your inner thoughts to flow through your fingertips and form pages of intimate text. It’s a way to better your grammatical skills and other grammatical rules, while also having the ability to follow no rules at all. It’s a way to share your voice, to change perspectives, and to share ideas. It brings me great joy to only need a pen or pencil to create any storyline or person I want. It’s calming, mindless, and beautiful.

That’s why I love it.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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15 Thing Only Early 2000's Kids Will Understand

"Get connected for free, with education connection"


This is it early 2000's babies, a compilation finally made for you. This list is loaded with things that will make you swoon with nostalgia.

1. Not being accepted by the late 90's kids.


Contrary to what one may think, late 90's and early 00's kids had the same childhood, but whenever a 00's kid says they remember something on an "only 90's kids will understand" post they are ridiculed.

2. Fortune tellers.


Every day in elementary school you would whip one of these bad boys out of your desk, and proceed to tell all of your classmates what lifestyle they were going to live and who they were going to marry.



You could never read this book past 8 o'clock at night out of fear that your beloved pet rabbit would come after you.

4. Silly bands.


You vividly remember begging your parents to buy you $10 worth of cheap rubber bands that vaguely resembles the shape of an everyday object.

5. Parachutes.


The joy and excitement that washed over you whenever you saw the gym teacher pull out the huge rainbow parachute. The adrenaline that pumped through your veins whenever your gym teacher tells you the pull the chute under you and sit to make a huge "fort".

6. Putty Erasers


You always bought one whenever there was a school store.

7. iPod shuffle.


The smallest, least technological iPpd apple has made, made you the coolest kid at the bus stop.

8. "Education Connection"

You knew EVERY wood to the "Education Connection" commercials. Every. Single.Word.

9. " The Naked Brothers Band"


The "Naked Brothers Band" had a short run on Nickelodeon and wrote some absolute bangers including, "Crazy Car' and "I Don't Wanna Go To School"

10. Dance Dance Revolution


This one video game caused so many sibling, friend, and parent rivalries. This is also where you learned all of your super sick dance moves.

11. Tamagotchi


Going to school with fear of your Tamagotchi dying while you were away was your biggest worry.

12. Gym Scooters


You, or somebody you know most likely broke or jammed their finger on one of these bad boys, but it was worth it.

13. Scholastic book fairs


Begging your parents for money to buy a new book, and then actually spending it on pens, pencils, erasers, and posters.



Who knew that putting yogurt in a plastic tube made it taste so much better?

15. Slap Bracelets


Your school probably banned these for being "too dangerous".

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