This season of the Bachelor has definitely kept all of us on our toes. We have all fallen for the sweet 26 year old, but why have women across the nation begun to hate Ben? Well because Ben has stolen our hearts, and made women believe that sweet, caring, and adventurous Bachelors do actually exist!
Why we love him!
- He has been so open minded to every women, including Amanda and her two little ones! I think we can all say we died a little inside when he played with her girls on the beach on her hometown date!
- He always has just the right thing to say. Even when dates got uncomfortable and awkward, Ben knew just what to do to fix that. He also conveys exactly what he has been feeling, whether it is good or not so good.
- He is not your typical Bachelor! He is something other than a personal trainer or whatever! This is a nice change of pace for The Bachelor show all together.
- My boyfriend even loves him! He thinks him and Ben are kinda similar! (and I love it!) He says that he just seems like a likeable fun charismatic person. Who wouldn’t want that!
- Even when he breaks your heart a little bit, we still love him! What girl could resist the charming way he carries out every conversation good or bad! He leaves the girls saying they were happy to have met him, and whoever ends up with him is a lucky girl!
Why we hate him!
- He has fallen in love with two girls! This has never happened!!!
- He actually told the two girls he loves both of them! Come on Ben we know their both beautiful, fun loving girls, but you shouldn’t have said those three magic words to both girls! Why? That can leave whichever girl you do end up with feeling so uneasy about your true feelings! At least for your viewers, were pissed you told both girls “I Love you” not to mention on the clip from this week, your mother didn’t seem too pleased either!
All in all we know we love Ben Higgins the Bachelor and whichever woman he chooses to be with in the end. We all want nothing but happiness for them both and I think we’ll all pray for a beautiful happy ending for the two so we keep believing and loving The Bachelor.






















