It seems like the days of the gentlemen are over. With this "millennial" culture that I, unfortunately, find myself forced into being a part of, all of the ideals that my father taught me seem to be disappearing more rapidly than anything I've ever seen. But what is being a gentleman? Despite what many might believe, it's more than just having a presentable haircut and holding the door open on occasion. So many of the fundamental aspects of being a gentleman are dying. I feel the need to refresh everyone who's reading this what it entails.

It's about being the best possible man you can be. And in my eyes, it starts with respecting and cherishing women. Opening the car door on dates, insisting on paying for things, and ultimately treating every woman with the utmost respect in every scenario.

Now a days, half of men have "side pieces" or are treating women as objects, and it's a sickening culture that has developed. Treat women with respect, don't just take them for granted. Appreciate all the joy they can bring into your life. And if any women are reading this right now; don't accept anything less than a gentleman. Any male that doesn't value you or treat you the way isn't a man; he's a boy.

I truly believe that everyone can concur that the way one carries himself is a crucial part of portraying how to be a gentleman. Presenting yourself in a confident and an upbeat manner can give every person you meet the impression that they should take you seriously because you do yourself. In contrast, most guys walk around today slouched, dragging their feet and looking like they just rolled out of bed. A little pro tip for those guys: if you don't take yourself seriously, nobody else will. Start portraying with body language and manners that you are a man, and that you're a gentleman more importantly.

Similarly, there's been a drastic decline in personal image. Half of the time I see guys walking around, it's in sweats or gym shorts. No longer do I see males taking pride in what they wear, like putting on a nice shirt and pants just for the sake of looking presentable. A gentleman takes pride in his image, wanting others to see him as such. Take the initiative to look like a reputable man, I guarantee people will treat you differently.

I hope I was able to shed light on the issues of today's men for you, and with some luck maybe millennial men will make some changes and bring back the era of the gentleman.